She's a bartender, and she works at a pub I've been to a few times. The second time I went there, I was able to talk to her about a lot of things, and she seemed cool as hell. After a few too many drinks, I told her about my foot fetish. This is enough to scare off most women, but she continued to talk to me, and gave me a hug before I left!

The third time I went, it was her night off, and she was there having a drink with a friend. While I talked to her, she touched me on my shoulder and belly, and a few minutes later, bought me a beer. So I got her number. Before she left, she kissed me on the cheek.

I texted her my number the next day because I forgot to give it to her. Then, 4 days later, asked what her schedule looks like this week, and got no answer. WTF?

She probably flirts with tons of guys. Be more bossy over text.

Keep it simple: "I'm going out at [XX:00] to [LOCATION]. Come."

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The ultimate lesson of psychoanalysis is that human life is never "just life": we are possessed by the strange drive to enjoy life in excess, attached to a surplus which derails the ordinary run of things.
-Slavoj Zizek

Not everything can be explained man, especially women and their antics.

BUT, same thing can be said about us men. How many times have we gotten a number, planned to contact them, then had a FINE HB10 stroll through your life? It happens a lot, you just don't think about the other person because you're too preoccupied with the new one.

So, above is a plausible theory. But that's the point, any theory is plausible. When people do or don't do things, it means there is some prioritization going on. She didn't text you? Something else is more important than you are. That's it.

What to do about it? Keeping working at it. If you have enough of these going on that you barely notice when one girls doesnt text you back, that means you are doing something right...and that you aren't sweating the small shit! Because lets be honest, she's got you on your toes and your balls are on a platter. Don't let a girl mess your psyche like that.

You've done all you could with the follow ups and texting, now its up to her. The more you spend time on this, the worse you look. So I suggest not saying anything to her until she initiates. When you go to the bar, act like nothing happened and treat her how you usually do. Only if she brings up the phone situation should you comment on the topic.

Otherwise, game girls and have fun, because if there's anything a girl gets frustrated about, its that somebody she thought she had something with, "got away."

Good luck man.