Well guys first of all I am new in this forum. I have been reading the game by styles and half of mystery's method book. I have never asked something before at the forum, however I have been reading a lot of your stuff (you guys are amazing).

Well here is my issue:

There is this hb 8.5 at my squash club. After somedays of negging her and good chat, she started sending me IOI's like touching her hair or looking for having a conversation with me. She was that into me that all the time she repeated sentences like THAT IS SO COOL or Wow!...

So one day I asked her phone number and she basically answered: Yes you should take it! You should!

So the next day at around 4pm I called her. She didn't pick up so I texted her about going out that night. She answered like 4 hours later that she was preparing some exams and it was impossible for her to meet before tuesday but that she wanted to.

I called her on Tuesday, again she didnt reply and I texted her. Again she answered the message at late night telling me that she had some activities the day I proposed for the date so that she wasnt able but again she said that she wanted to and that she was sorry. I played her game and didn't reply in 2 days.

By this time she sent me another message asking me if she could tell me when she had free time. I answered "Yes" and since then she hasn't replied in 2 days.


Now I realize that I acted needy at first and that maybe she has lost all her attraction towards me. However I would like to know if there is a solution for this situation since I still have a lot of influence in her social group and I get along pretty well with her friends.

HELP PUAs!

A girl generally won't take the initiative to lead with "I'm free Fri, let's do something." Life is fluid, people coming and going, and she may have 5 new offers from other guys at that time. Best to nail something down with her in a non-needy way. Like late next week can hit her with 1 more offer "hey I'm going to be at X on Thurs. come..' or whatever. If she keeps avoiding, just move on to the next girl. The more girls you have practice with the better you will become at lining up dates etc.

Thanks! I'll follow your advice

"I'm not free till after Tuesday" means set up a date to do something after Tuesday. Not wait till Tuesday and then try and set up a date when she has already booked things in for the week.

The lack of initiative on your part would make the spark fizzle eventually.

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Ok guys so today I was walking down uni and I saw her from far. As I didn't want to create an ackward situation stopping her (I thought she didn't want to talk to me) I walked looking to the other side of the road. However, she stopped me and said

her-Hey "my name"! How are you?(full smile on her face)
me-oh hi!
her- I am on a rush right now but I'll see you at squash?
me- Yeah sure! I have lectures too so see you later

WTF is going on here?
please i need an answer because I have squash in two days
thnks guys

I ended up with a solution last week and I applied it. After one week without texting her and creating more confidence I asked her for drinks again. We dated last night and it was great . In addition we already setted the second date.

Thnks for the help oceanx and Conker posting.php?mode=reply&f=53&t=172035#