So I met this HB6.5 on Friday. Only spoke to her for 10 mins but with a lot of Chemistry and Kino. I number closed instantly fearing that she needed to go back to her friends, which was very silly of me. Although it was really smooth, I could barely remember how she looks like the next day morning, I assume it must have been the same on her side too. So one can say there is not enough connection and rapport to carry on. I tried anyway. Here is the SMS between us.

Friday night, right after I left
ME: Hi, we just met at the bar. We are going to this magazine launch party. Text me if you and your friend wanna come, because it is quite difficult to get in. have a good night!

No reply

Sunday afternoon
ME: Hey. I bet you thought about me over the weekend. Hope you had a nice time Friday night. Tomorrow, I should have an hour free after work. Come and join me for a coffee. It will be fun!
(Trying to sound a bit cocky there and an hour time constraint on the meet up)

7 hours later
HB: Hey sorry for my late response..Friday night was easy but i went home early and the party where you've been was good? Unforunately I don't have time tomorrow, perhaps another day.
(No rescheduling, so I assume it is off)

5 hours later
ME: The party was awesome. It was a magazine launch party which we were invited to. A lot of cool artists and designers.
(Try to DHV a little there. and completely ignored the rejection of the date just to show her that I couldnt care less)

Wednesday afternoon
ME: Hey are you on Facebook?
(Trying to be persistant, but a little less aggressive approach. Plus, I really cant remember how she looks like now!)

8 hours later
HB: Ah okey cool Yes I'm on fb..and you?
(I assume the "Ah okey cool" part is the response to my DHV on Sunday)

The last reply is an interesting one. She is obviously somewhat interested, because although she turned down the date, she kept on replying my text. At the same time, she sounds like a very good gamer, as she directly answered my question and even ask me "and you?" without initiating further contact. Normally I would stop wasting my time here, but I would like to play along and see what she has under her belt.

I want to gather all the ideas from the best PUA around here and lets see if we can out game this girl together.

I will wait until tomorrow afternoon and send the best idea here and keep you guys posted about what happens.

This interaction looks pretty one-sided...

The invite for coffee did have the right elements but it may have been a bit cheesy.

"ME: Hey. I bet you thought about me over the weekend. Hope you had a nice time Friday night. Tomorrow, I should have an hour free after work. Come and join me for a coffee. It will be fun!
(Trying to sound a bit cocky there and an hour time constraint on the meet up)"

Considering you barely know her face, and you assuming she doesn't remember yours, tough to get her to admit thinking about you. And you are correct about the non-reschedule, that's always a sign of how things are going.

I think the battle starts when you see her in person again so all efforts should go in to meeting up. I would suggest LESS enthusiasm on your part in texts, with more casual invites to coffee/lunch/whatever without going overboard with the C&F (which I think made you come across a bit wannabe PUA. Remember, girls read this stuff more than we think).

I would use that as the main litmus test: is she rescheduling or sending you any IOIs? I don't think any of the FB convo revealed any IOIs per se. Her saying she's also on FB is an answer to your question and her responses to your DHV seems lukewarm at best.

While I see why you asked her about FB to have something to say (and she did respond favorably) it is usually unproductive derail your intentions to meet and get with a girl by moving the convo to secondary venues such as FB, email etc.

When she said 'perhaps another day' may have replied with 'cool which day works for you, but don't say X or X days i'm going to be doing X'.

It is very interesting to see how you guys come up with completely different views! That is why I like this game so much! There is never 1 answers to the question.

RiRi suggested I should include less enthusiasm in my text, while oceanx suggested to reply "cool which day works for you". But at least we all agree that I should keep on trying to arrange an actual meeting and stop wasting time on FB or Email.

One thing I think RiRi correctly pointed out is that CF should be used with caution. I was with another girl last night. I started to be very CF because she gave me a lot of shit test. And in the end she almost found me threatening.

I am still keen to get her FB first, because I was slightly intoxicated when I met her. I might have raised the her HB level with my beer goggle on.

I am planning to reply "How about you show me yours and I show you mine?"

You're going to say that to her regarding Facebook?

Again, you dont have enough rapport to say stuff like this without the person thinking its creepy.

It's ok to speak to women normally you know? You don't have to sound C&F every time or have the best reply for every question.

Taking all the advice. I wrote something like this.

ME: Of course everyone is on Facebook. Do you want to know what it is? Btw, maybe you are still interested to get a quick coffee with me at some point. When would you have time?
(This "Do you want to know what it is?" part should have been more thought through. She clearly didnt understand what I meant when she replied. I said "maybe you are still interested" to make her feel that I am not the only one who wants this to happen)

HB: What what is? yeah..when are you in the city next time?
(There were some spelling errors, but at least it is a positive reply)

ME: I am in the city every week day. I think I told you I work there, didnt I? Actually I will be there meeting a friend on Sunday too. Shall we meet sunday afternoon, say 3?
(Thinking about it now. I probably should have put in a time constrain there again)

Now we shall see what happens...

Look, it's just a bit weird to be so persistent with someone whom you merely got a number off and know nothing else about it, you practically admitted that much yourself. So don't invest too much into this.

If you can get an actual phone conversation with her, where you can actually have a fun conversation and she can hear the confidence in your voice, you could build something from there. But FB chat is just going to be more of the same. She's only providing you with polite conversation to not be rude. FB might help if you have massive DHV on there with your photos showing you around lots of girls etc.

But you know you didn't really start this one out very well, so don't expect too much.

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