Here's my situation. I'm 19 and a sophomore in college. My problem is that I'm having a tough time f-closing with a lot girls.


With some girls, I found that if you go too fast, they're uncomfortable. With other girls, they want a man who's aggressive and goes in for the kill.

This is what happened to me last night. We were in my bed watching a movie. We started kissing. When I went to unbutton her pants and unzipping them, she kept zipping and buttoning them back up. When I went to put my hand in her pants, she seemed to get really uncomfortable and buttoned her pants back up. When I talked to my friends about it, 1 of which is a girl, they said they would have just ripped her pants off.

She's coming over tonight and I want to know what I should be doing from the moment we start kissing to have sex with her.

My first question is if I'm able to start making out with a girl, does that mean I should be able to seal the deal? Or do a lot of girls like to save it for the next encounter?
Should you be touching their boobs and have them shirtless before you move to their vajina?
And how should you determine how fast to sexually escalate?
Thanks

Yeah, rip her pants off, fuck rape charges.

You need to work towards it, focus on turning her on and leading her down a path towards sex. Don't just start unzipping her pants, make her want to unzip her pants for you. Start kissing, get hard, don't be shy about it(She'll be getting wet too), touch her body and escalate. Kiss her, caress her shoulders, back, stomach and move towards her breasts. Pay close attention to her nipples as she'll get really turned on if you do it right. Then start moving her, exercise your dominance over her by making her comply with your movements. Get her to lie on top of you. Don't force but guide her to do this. She'll get on top, feel you hard under her and get more turned on. Start making out more, being more sexual. Grab her ass, bite her neck playfully(!!!) and tease the absolute shit out of her. She'll be frothing at the mouth. Then start moving towards her pussy.

Let her grind against your dick through clothes but if it gets too rough take charge, either tell her to stop or start undoing her pants.

Lol. That's pretty much it. I wouldn't so much worry about seeing if nipples get hard, seeing as its going to be hard to stop. If you're looking for signs of doing it right then listen to her breathe. It might get louder. She might increase her rate. She might hold her breath for a second. You'll hear it. Also, nibble her ear with your tongue covering your bottom teeth while blowing in her ear (nostrils)... it's guaranteed to give her boose bumps and a little, well, you know. Only move to that if she lets you kiss her neck though. Go lips to chin to neck. Go up neck to ear.. Don't rape her though lol

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