So the other weekend I was with this girl I knew at the bar having fun... We started bombing shots and next thing you know our friends went home and it was just us in the bar making out. We decided to walk back to her house where the rest of our friends and her roommate were and I remember going back to her room.

I remember making out and dry fucking pretty intensively for about 25 minutes on the bed, on the floor, and wherever else but needless to say I remember it being pretty aggressive. I remember having that thought "Im about to get it in" when she told me she didn't want to... it was pretty awkward and I kept trying to persist for a moment (not forcefully or anything) but could tell it wasn't going to go anywhere. FUCK!!! I told her that was fine and didn't want to make her do anything she didn't want to do and played it off cool. We hung out for a little longer with the rest of our friends then she went to bed.

Any good PUA's out there know how this could have been avoided? I'm curious on some insight because It wasnt like she was never into me, it was actually the complete opposite up until she said that after being on the border of getting it in...