So I've been improving my game somewhat. I feel more and more confident over time however I've become increasingly picky. My standards have skyrocketed. I really only get interested with beautiful girls unless I'm wasted and taken advantage of. I'm saying this to give you the perspective of how special this girl has to be to make me feel this way.

My friend had a Halloween big Halloween party at his place. I brought a girl that I had been working on to the event with the thought that I'd bang her without emotion. I don't care for this girl. She's tall and cute but she draws nothing out of me more than the desire to notch her on the belt. Let's call her Cat.

At the party, one of the roommates' (also a friend of mine) cousin shows up. I had met her briefly once before and I qualified her a bit before she left. Tonight she was there to party and stay a while. Let's call her Beauty.

I didn't really go after her. I was bouncing around the party and having a great time. I DHV by being the guy who converses with everybody and has fun with everybody. I ended up falling into a game of never have I ever with her and Cat. I just genuinely had fun with her I threw her some strong eye contact and joked around. Completely natural stuff that I didn't think about at all honestly. It was the most natural game I've ever done.

I cannot remember but Beauty and I ended up outside for fresh air and SHE leads me around the house to where it's private. I knew obviously she was attracted so I went in for the move and she was mine for the night. We were all over each other sneaking out repeatedly through the night. I had Cat get a ride home with a friend of mine. I ended up sleeping with Beauty in a sleeping bag in the attic. Woke up next to her and made out some more, while covering a few bases. I did NOT F close her. There was little privacy we could have, though she was definitely into it saying things like I wish you had a room here etc.

I got her number and she left. I texted her back the next night. I started with something about how I felt like I got hit by a bus sleeping in that attic. Then she responded after a while agreeing. I then said that I had a great time and TOLD her to call me next time she comes around to hang out (I never do the AFC thing and ask girls to do anything). I always phrase things so that its more of me telling them rather than asking them. She agreed and said she'll be around near Thanksgiving.

She lives in Connecticut... Not too far from me. Its an hour and a half drive. I'd totally be willing to go into a relationship with this girl despite the distance. I want to see her again bad. She's in my mind all the time. She's gorgeous and smart. I don't meet girls who evoke these feelings in me so she is certainly something.

My quandary is that I don't know how or if I can hold or escalate interest during the time in between I can see her again. I don't want her to forget about me when she comes back. I hope that when she does, and I text her she'll respond and hang out instead of say "what do I care It's some guy I hooked up with one night." I do believe that it's possible for a girl to feel this way about a guy. I MUST bank on that idea to have a shot with this girl. She was sexual enough and the vibe I felt was strong for it.

How can I keep this girl on the line for a day 2? Should I text her? Should I call her randomly? Should I just lay low until Thanksgiving and pop up with an invite?

Thanks for the help fellas.

P.S. Funny point to take out of this is that Cat still actually wants to date me.

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