live two hours away from major city where girl lives (with her parents). we've been out on a couple dates, but theyve been during the day, usu when i'm passing through for a couple hrs. phone/text is solid, heading in the right direction, but i, am a fucking idiot, and haven't closed anything yet.

so my question is, how do you play this logistical problem?

we agreed to meet halfway where a rural town holds a rather famous haunted house/hayride, etc. lots of places to make moves during that time, but i wanna go further. i was thinking i could say i booked a hotel for the night cuz i knew id be too tired to drive back, ur welcome to stay (so even if she has to go back home she can come chill for a little in the hotel room). i was gonna infuse dinner with wine before we headed out to the haunted houses.

oh, initially i wanted her to come up to where i was, which she would but she has family in town that weekend and cant be gone the whole weekend. that's why i'm thinking meet in the evening for dinner, drinks, haunted house, some hotel time, possibly spend the night or if that was bullshit, all night there.

i could head back ot the city with her and stay with friends, but if she goes home and i'm with friends, there's no hookup opportunity there.

thoughts?

Why you overcomplicate things?

"Come over for a dinner. I will take care of food, you are responsible for desert."

Or simply tell her that you want her, she will understand. You have to be comfortable with your sexuality .

Let me know if it's somehow helps you.

I always prefer meeting at my place, or her place if her parents are away. did she say she couldn't be gone the whole weekend or one night or are you just assuming that? Don't assume anything, offer.

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