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| The Squirrel | PostPosted: Thu Oct 24, 2013 5:46 pm | |
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Posts: 31 | | When you guys meeting a girl on day 2, how much do you usually spend?
Do you buy food for the girl or just something to drink?
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| Chris101 | PostPosted: Fri Oct 25, 2013 3:04 am | |
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Website: http://www.flowmentumdating.com/
Location: Australia | | I don't drink alcohol, so obviously I don't spend anything on free water. Although when I decide to mave a soft drink (soda) sometimes, I notice that the girl has often decided to pay for it... whether or not the date goes well, or I see her again.
In terms of food, sometimes I will get something when I have dates at coffee/dessert shops... but once again, sometimes the date will tell me not to worry and pay for it. Weird. But if it's a full-on dinner situation, obviously it's fair to pay for your own stuff - I will insist on it. _________________ Flowmentum Dating | FB
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| samreedy | PostPosted: Sat Oct 26, 2013 4:06 pm | |
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Joined: Sun Oct 20, 2013 4:24 pm
Posts: 34 | | I agree
although I tend to work in rounds, 90% of girls if you buy the first round will then go and buy the 2nd, if they dont go and get yourself a drink and then challenge her when she challenges you as to why you didnt get her one, but make it playful
if im seriously dating someone and we go out for a casual meal, in a pub etc I will get them to take turns, I pay one week, you pay the next etc
if she expects you to pay for more, tell her to do one- shes just after a free meal!
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| Xoved | PostPosted: Sat Oct 26, 2013 8:55 pm | |
Joined: Fri Aug 16, 2013 6:46 pm
Posts: 729 | | Pay like it's no big deal. If she physically insists to pay, let her do that.
I don't get why many people in PUA community over-think this issue. It's a matter of respect, it's not a challenge.
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