I joined a dating website not too long ago, but my ex found my profile and has been trying to get in contact since, I cant STAND her, worst GF i've ever had and looks like shes even uglier now than when we were dating (I dated her when I was a teen out of desperation but broke up when I discovered im better off single or with a better girl) I have this horrible fear of repeating my parents mistake of getting too far into commitment with the wrong person and this girl actually highly resembles my mother (Whom I also didn't like generally) Last time I fooled around with this girl was about 6 years ago and was done out of guilt not love (I felt bad for dumping her harshly and decided to let her have her way with me for one evening only) The scarier part is she's the type of girl who will bore you into oblivian with about 5 phone calls a day (She seems to believe the MORE you contact someone the BETTER you're doing and no way in hell am I giving her my number again!) and there's NOTHING attractive about her, AT ALL (Hence why she's still single and most girls aren't) She's also the type if you were to somehow get her knocked up, she will NOT get rid of it and I would literly shoot myself if I end up with her. So is it worth taking the risk or would it be better investing whatever time it takes to improve my game and screw quality women instead? I don't like waiting but I honestly feel it's probably better, why screw a girl you can't stand lol (I'd screw the other 4 exs i've had anyday)

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Why ask a girl generic and boring questions like 'How are you, where you from?' when you can ask "Whats the craziest thing you've done, what was your first kiss like?"

Think about yourself, will fucking this girl will make me feel better? If it is, do it. You're the priority aren't you? Improve your game and get better girls if possible, just, forget about low quality women. They're for needy guys, and being needy, is certainly not alpha.

Good luck!

Yeah I dont think it would make me feel good about myself, im just gonna ditch the dating profile and go meet more girls for real. At least im no longer afraid to flirt with them, it's just a matter of patience and persistance at this stage, cheers for that

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Why ask a girl generic and boring questions like 'How are you, where you from?' when you can ask "Whats the craziest thing you've done, what was your first kiss like?"

I always apply the following question to decide if she's too ugly.

If I got her pregnant, would the kid be ugly enough to embarrass me?

I also sometimes will tell a random girl, I'd she's super hot, that me and her would make the most beautiful babies in the world.

She aint hot at all, she's a freaking 2/10, im asking cause i haven't f*cked yet (I almost did with two girls but I was either too young at the time (Shame too cause she was an 8/10, both of us were in our teens) or terrified because she had just told her friend she wasn't taking the pill anymore and this is the same girl im on about) Im asking is the sex worth it even if it's with someone you cant stand? Well im gonna throw this 'opportunity' out the window for now and focus on other girls, im confident that'll ill get pussy I enjoy banging at this stage

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Why ask a girl generic and boring questions like 'How are you, where you from?' when you can ask "Whats the craziest thing you've done, what was your first kiss like?"

my answer is do it once and with caution, because girls who are 5 or below have their own games especially if the guy is too attractive to her (they are damn good).

be aware that this girl is offering sex as a manipulation, during the intercoures she will try to boast your ego and she try to act like she is your lover not as one night stand just to think subconsciously that you are into her. and if that doesn't work she'll dig to your life just to find your vulnerable moment; financial problem, family losses or even that your game isn't working lately and you have a low self confidence in that moment.

so do it just once. after you finish fucking like you just finished your day job on friday night and looking forward to your weekend.

Just use her, fuck her, dump her and disappear into the night like the wonderful Romeos you obviously are on here. No wonder you're all so unhappy, depressed and begging for advice when deep down your a load of shallow fucking losers.

i wouldn't do it if i was you, it can lower your self esteem, and you might stick with her out of laziness
also some ugly girls like to brag and words travel fast, you don't want to be that guy who bangs ugly girls out of desperation
also don't waste your time on internet dating, going out in the real world is way more time efficient

@ fkilani Yeah, that scares me the way some people seem to just wait until someone you're close to dies and uses your temporarly hampered mood to their advantage. Im financially screwed at the moment but should be back on my feet in about a week or so. I dont feel so desperate to f*ck her, the fear and paranoia of my parents marriage and repeating that is whats really stopping me from doing it which is sort of a good thing actually, I dont like her at all lol

@ Digital_Spy Charming, thanks for that :3 I do try you know, in real life (Internet dating tends to get me nowhere at all), but Einstein once said to keep asking questions, only way to learn and I honestly don't mind going from zero to hero the longer and harder way instead of hiring a prostitute, we all gotta start somewhere. Some people have the skills needed their whole lives, other people like myself have to learn it. Besides knowing ALL about seduction has its other uses too and not just for myself, one day i might be in a bar with a shy friend who fancies a girl, ill do the hard part and open for him and introduce them. It's not easy when you've been shy all your life to suddenly go to the most interesting person in the room, but its better to try and fail and improve than just give up and ignore what you really want

@ dominique.g Now THATS a very good point, yeah I certainly dont want to get somehow obsessed with her. She aint the bragging type but there is something fishy about the way she seemingly tries to hunt me down like a postal worker. I dont think I know ANY guys who banging ugly girls all the time, I know guys who get girls they want all the time that suck with relationships, know plenty of good couples who've been happily taken for years, know couples who are in or been through relationsh*ts. I dont know many guys who can't or wont go and get anything at all but the very few I do know seem to be really really good at doing something else (Probably because of the amount of time they spend on their own doing it, drawing, instrument ect) Going out and talking to real girls was a problem i've had almost my entire life but after a few months of help from one of the forums mods, flirting IRL comes naturally now (In fact I now hate internet flirting cause I know it don't work unless you're a good liar or too honest or under-exaggerate on what you do) I do have a fear of getting 'stuck' with a girl I dont click well with, however it doesn't stop me flirting with them for practice so ill know what to do with someone I really want, flirting is a tonne of fun anyway, its awesome being that guy talking away to girls while the rest of them sit there quietly and watching thinking 'Wish I could do that =(' Another thing that sucks, most girls i've flirted with happen to be taken (And the BF would be nearby to prove it) There's a nice gaming convention coming up late November ill be attending and ill be flirting away with lots and lots of like-minded girls

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Why ask a girl generic and boring questions like 'How are you, where you from?' when you can ask "Whats the craziest thing you've done, what was your first kiss like?"

I'm glad you find the answer, involving with low quality girls can harm your self-esteem and may destroy it completely. I had my experience, before involving with low quality girls I hadn't any problem with women what so ever and I didn't feel the need of learning from PUA's. because of the involvement with some of low quality girls I destroyed my inner game completely, then I join many PUA newsletters and fixed my inner game -it took a while- and I become better than before.

also what you are doing in real life flirting with girls face to face is really amazing . if most of the girls you like are taken you can turn it to your advantage, they are your social proof and those girls can be your anchor or your wing girls.

read your own post and think about what you wrote, you have more then likely already reached your own opinion on this matter and are just looking for reassurance

just trust your own judgement, if you want to sleep with a girl who others don't approve of who isn't attractive in the classical sense, don't let what other people think or your ego get in the way, if you like someone, you like someone, and OTOH if you don't find someone attractive and don't like them, then you don't have to see them or be with them

just do what pleases you