| How does the game change when it comes to flirting with girls positioned in work environments like sales, clothing stores, coffee shops, etc?
-First off aren't they used to all these guys using to their advantage the fact that they open them as clients and then talking them up? How can you distinguish yourself and make you mark, and end up on some kind of number close, or setting up a date?
-Also doesn't the fact that they're supposed to sell you something, or offer their services throw you off your scent in terms that they're supposed to act nice and warm. How can you know if this is just they way they act cause of their environment, or if they're genuinely interested cause they saw something in you?
These were a couple of questions that are always on my mind on situations like this. Bit more specifically, my interest in answering them is due my recent encounter with a girl working at a bar the other night.
I just saw this girl working on a bar as a waitress a couple of days ago, i started calling her on my table briefly and making funny requests, like saying if she could remove the ice from my water cause i'm trying to get over with a cold and other non-relevant things, just so i could get a feel, and conversate on a general level. I was also with a female wing at the time, and we were laughing all the time, so that could have worked to my advantage for the other girl seeing me be comfortable and have a good time with women. At the end i asked her for an opinion on something (said i needed a haircut, but my friend insisted i could grow my hair somehow longer and i'de like her opinion as a female to settle this and showed her a couple of picture on my phone. Then asked her name and also learned her age, and complimented that i thought she was 5 years younger, which i genuinely thoguht so. But ultimately i thought it would be sleazy just from that to go straight for her number considering that we didnt really talk more than that. Plus she was running around doing her job so i couldnt isolate her and make some personal connection, nor did it feel right to come on to her in front of my friend. But i really saw something in her and i would like to move things forward.
How can i play my cards right?
When should be the next time i go there, and how can i show that i'm interested and not just some funny friendly guy? Also should i be worried if she has a boyfriend or a love interest, or should i act like that doesnt matter and just keep focus and achieving my result?
|
CHAT