So Friday night I number closed this cocktail waitress at a bar. The minute I dropped a line on her for her number as I was closing my tab she pulled out her pen and wrote it down on the back of my receipt. However, after she wrote her number she asked me what her name was. I'd had a few drinks and the bar was really loud so I couldn't remember what it was (amateur move on my part). I figured the only thing I could do was just own so I said in a cocky funny voice "I don't know." She shook her head and wrote uner her number "asshole. my name is **********"

So anyway, I texted her Saturday night with some casual, joking text asking her if she remembered my name since she called me an asshole for not remembering hers. No response back at all.

Should I follow up on that and call her later this week? Or should I just write it off? What do you guys think?

It's best not to waste a lot of time on cocktail waitresses. You've lost compliance; getting it back is tricky. One way is to text something warm and friendly combined with a small investment request, like asking her to text you a picture.

You might also try laying out a suitor pattern with a fade or perhaps just doing a fade.

Would you mind explaining what you mean by suitor pattern or fade?