Hello all,

I'm really new to texting with girls, long story short. Met a girl couple of months ago didn't really talk much at all. Met her again at a party we started talking and kissed. She told me she liked me. We texted only the day after the party and agreed to meet again on a party the next weekend.
So we met again at the party talked again and kissed again but nothing more than that.

Now that there won't be any parties we're both going to for the next couple of weeks I still want to see her and see if we can go further then just kissing. But when we text her answers are always quite lame. This is how our last night of texting ended:

Me: "You should go with us the next time we're going"
She: "Yeah I really want to go to a party again sometime"
Me: "Last parties we had a really fun time togheter haha"
She: "Hahah"
Me: "Well I'm off to bed, I'll talk to you another time?"
She: No response.

Can someone give me some tips on what to do next?

Thanks in advance!

You told her you were going to bed, and would talk to her another time? What the fuck were you expecting? Let's get married? Let's fuck? Tell me a bed time story?

Look, the whole shit stain was boring. If you can't/don't like to text, pull out that manpon, sack up and actually call, or get a lot less boring!

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Don't ask next time. Suggest a time and place to meet.

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Would it be a good choice to wait couple of days and re-open with a joke?

No dude, never ask them for permission for anything. She can either join you or she can't. You find something cool to do that YOU like doing and tell her she can come along because you guys are so good together. Always use WE and US and together words when talking to her. She wants to F-close you. Its plain as day but she needs you to man up, pick the venue, and make the move. Invite her to something you have fun doing. If its something she would never do in a million years even better. Take her to a club, a bar, midnight coffee, some crazy thing you found in the paper. I banged a girl in the park last week. It doesn't matter where you do it unless she is a bitch. If she's a bitch with ridiculous standards you can go over to her house for something small like to show her a website or video or DVD or book, it doesn't really matter why you are there but once you are in her pad she is an easy target. Once you bang her she will do all of the work trying to justify to herself how awesome you are, and then...

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Do not take her to a club. Last thing you want is a bunch of dudes creeping on your girl on the dance floor when she seems primed to hook up. Drinks, near your home, or even at your home. Simple.

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Kissed? Come on. Go get it.


Random idea, Tell her there's a party at your place and to come over. Of course you need to make sure she comes alone without telling her to come alone. When she gets there, she will ask where the party is. At that point, start kissing her.

Or you could ask to go over to her house to borrow some butter or something equally lame. If she says yes when you get there go into the bathroom and start taking a bath with the door wide open. Then call her into the room and ask her to wash your back. Make sure when she does to get her wet, pull her into the tub, etc.

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So this is what happend. I decided to not message her for a couple of days and she randomly texted me last night asking what I was doing. I think she's still interested but I find it hard to really fix a meet up or keep a convo going with her through texting.

And I lol'd at the bathtub story btw haha..

Should I try to fix a meet up in our next convo?

Yes go for whatever meet up you want. It doesn't really matter so long as your confortable and confident in what your doing. I always try to skip "real" dates and have a girl over to watch tv or movies, this way its cheap and your alone. If you don't think she will be into that then just tell her you have had a long week and are in need of a drink and ask her to meet you. Either way just make sure you meet her and have a good time.

I see you read "The Game"

Perfect. You got her. She likes you. You gotta meet her for things to happen. Make it casual. Like havegunwilltravel said.

I think your reading into it to much. I personally think you did just fine. Just follow up and suggest a place for you guys to meet. Follow the advice above, execute, and you should be good.

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Thanks for all the advice so far guys.

This is what happend: We had a little chat through text last saturday I went out to a club with friends and she stayed at a friends home. When I came back from the club she told me she could drive me home as I had to bicycle all the way home and she has a car. So she picked me up and we talked and laughed for like 3 hours and after that we K-closed.

She told me it's nice to hang out with me. But I'm still finding it hard to actually get more sexual any tips on that?

Thanks in advance everyone!