I met this girl on POF, and we met on Thursday. Had a few drinks then went back to her place and made out and sucked her tits. She said had to work early the next day so we didn't have sex.

Next morning, we went to grab breakfast and I tried to kiss her on the cheek goodbye. She leaned away like she didn't want me to kiss her. Weird.

Met her again yesterday (Sunday). Kissed her on the cheek when she opened the door. Had a few drinks at her place, then her friends met up with us and had a few drinks at a bar. We all went back to her place, and since it was Labor Day weekend, there were tons of cops so she invited everyone to stay the night over. Completely reasonable. I shared the bed with her again, we made out while everyone was asleep. Sucked her tits, and this time she let me finger her. We couldn't have sex since everyone was there.

Next morning, everyone was gone, and I tried to initiate some morning sex. She let me suck her tits, but this time she didn't let me finger her. On our way out to breakfast I tried to kiss her on the mouth and she says "why are you being so gay?" WTF? We went back to her place and watched TV. I grabbed her hand and she gave me this look, then said "why are you trying to act like my boyfriend?" WTF again.

So, she has a kid and its her turn to watch him this week, but she wants to see me again in two weeks. So what's going on? Is she playing games? Why does she invite me to stay over if she doesn't want to have sex? Why is she more intimate at night but pretends she doesn't know me in the day?

STOP ACTING LIKE THE WOMAN. you want to hold hands, you are spending 2-3 days on a long weekend with her.... but are you negging her, are you push pulling, are you MAKING her want to be with you. SHE even has to say when the next date is. And I bet you said "yeah sure 2 weeks will probably work." where you should have said, yeah I'll see if I'm free then or turned it around on her.

Stop trying to close especially if you're not getting IOIs, not leading the conversation, and not making her want you. If you've used keno right then she should be wanting you.

I'd say the first thing you need to do is cancel the next date you have planned and YOU plan the next one (just say something's come up), and repair the situation. Make her think that you don't need her. At the moment, she sees that she doesn't need you.

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You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. Let her rip.

inviting me to sleep over her place and making out and letting me finger her is not an IOI? did you read my whole post?