Ok so this girl i have been virtually best friends with for a large chunk of my life goes off to college... we go our seperate ways and everythings cool. Then a few weeks ago she says hi to me, her and i have both recently goten out of LTRs (with different people, not eachother, both LTRs ended in a big mess). So with valentines aproaching i ask her if she wants to spend it with me... she does (hangin out wud be cool... if she no longer sees me as just friends then even better). I head off to rome for a week, n she texts me frequently... i get bk 3.30am vday. Ok so later on she comes over, things are goin pretty well... talking as if she never went to college. So i decide to use some of the things i have picked up here on her. We start laughing and joking, too many IOIs later i kiss her. Great. Then we pleasure eachother etc. This girl imo is a HB9.5 atleast... id love to get into some sort of relationship with her. But after a spontanious night like that what do i do?
We spoke briefly the day after and she seems happy about the night... but i get the feeling shes only after the physical side of the relationship, which is great, ill take it. Thing is... how do i get this across to her in a way that keeps her lifetime ammount of trust and without makin me look like a "typical guy".
To mix things up a bit more... my LTR X is her best friend... and her LTR X is my best friend (gotta laugh) so needless to say we both feel a bit secretive about this whole thing. Talked it through with my 2 wings bt any advice anyone has wud be apreciated...

Well did yall have sex? If not then continue to build comfort. Make it known that you want something more out of it then just a physical relationship. I've had this happen before. I'm guessing that if you already have her at your place before then your probably in C3. Just have another date with her and seal the deal.

You make it sound so simple... maybe i have been over thinking this,

n no we didnt have sex, ill talk to her a bit more and invite her out soon, any way to tell what sort of relationship shes after without having to ask?