I posted this in the wrong section, so I moved it here trying to figure out how to delete the last one.

Bro's/gentlemen, Just like to say I'm loving these forums been reading them for sometime and Ive finally decided to make an account. I wanna learn from my mistakes/ need some advice bro to bro about 2 girls.

Met a girl 3 weeks ago at a bar hooked up, talked got to know eachother, hungout last week at her place. She gives me her work number and cell tells me she wants to hangout with me sometime (she offered I didnt even have to ask!) she was honestly more attracted to me than I was to her. Anyways I call her up tuesday she missed my call but texted me a few loooonggg texts saying srry she missed it shes free now to talk but it was late so I opted to call her sometime later during the week.

so I text(not call) her friday to see if shes free on sunday to hangout, her texts seemed a bit shorter but she said shes free sunday. Text her sunday morning to see if shes free in the evening. No response. So she obviously flaked on me, which i find weird because she was more into me than vice versa, is she shit testing me?

If she doesnt reply, My game plan is either text her (not sure how long to wait) with something Fun along the lines of "have you been kidnapped, if you need ransom money/food let me know etc etc"

ORRRR

Girl i met at an MMA class we got partnered up she was flirty, I know I have a chance but... i want what is harder to get so girl #1 looks more appealing

What are your thoughts? what mistakes did i make with #1? How should I handle the situation, move on or let it cooldown and retry in how many days/weeks?? What tactics would you use?

Ultimately does it make a difference? Probably not, you've reached out, tried to make it happen and nada, if she's interested she knows how to reach out. Some women do find persistence attractive, so giving it a shot twice or thrice is fine but anymore and just NEXT.

She knows how to reach out, take this example that happened to me recently: I met a girl at a town festival, striked up a convo, had great chemistry and a great interaction, no k close, nothing, just number closed. I sent a text didn't get a response till about 10 days later, turns out she was on vacation and then I forgot to text back for a few days and accidentally remembered because a friend brought it up and we started talking, now thursday we have a date scheduled.

Regarding the other girl, go for it, always try to have multiple women lined up because you know how they are, they can flake for a million reasons (they have a bf, they aren't interested, they're actually busy, they're scared, a butterfly appeared... etc)

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Did you qualify hard bro? If she doesn't know exactly why you are attracted to her for reasons other than her looks she is going to flake. Stop trying to contact her. Eventually she'll call you or you'll be hanging out with mutual friends or run into her someplace. When that happens qualify her.

Otherwise if you keep chasing her after she's flaked you are losing value every time you call or text.

Just the advice I needed guys, Obi you make a point she probably could have reached out to me but hasn't
and Gshock, I didnt even consider that until now, man the 2nd time I hungout with her she was extremely giddy
"why me, Im short" "I wish I had more time to get ready I look like a mess etc." I hungout with her on very short notice like 30 minutes and we all know 30 minutes is not enough for a girl to get "ready" Lol she must have felt "not pretty" or not ready etc.

see but your points are a bit contradicting because, I know she was wondering why Im attracted to her, she could have reached out but didn't (perhaps she wants a bit of persistence?) The sudden cold shoulder, from being excited to short texts and flaking the day of with no reply leaves me with 2 options persist or wait her out, but a girl that's unsure as to why I like her .... would she bother texting back in a few days or weeks? i honestly doubt it.

I think I'll message her something tomorrow something along the lines of:

Hey _______ I know youve been kidnapped but dont worry, If you need rescuing, flowers wine or food for ransom tell me, Im not too good at cooking tho etc etc

I wanna contact her and regain some momentum but not put pressure on her to answer why she flaked cuz that will make her feel uncomfortable, just an easy going funny text to get her to open up. If she likes me she'll probably reply, if she played me for a chump or has other priorities the text still would be hard to ignore due to its friendly nature? no?

If she doesnt reply to that well than Plan B it is.

Anyways guys thanks for your input got me thinking from a different angle, if you have any more advice please tell!