Hi all,

I'm new to all this and looking for some advice. Back story I meet Girl A about 5 weeks ago, she moves back home. I meet Girl B about 4 weeks ago everything goes well and mutually end things. I get a text from Girl A saying she is back and we go out last Thursday, things go ok but I have work the next day and end it early.

I get a text from her at 11 on Saturday saying can you come pick me up, so obviously I do we head back to mine. We get interrupted with a call from her friend and for some reason I agree to us going to grab a drink, I live in town so it was supposed to be a couple then head back.

We jump in to a club all good, have more than a couple of drinks. Eventually we decide to start heading back but stop off at one last place on the way back to see one of my friends. Unfortunately Girl B is there and about 20 min in Girl A sours on me, I don't know any further than that, Girl A's friend tells me to leave and I do.

I figure it is all over but send a couple of texts the next day seeing what was up and if she is ok, never mentioning Girl B. I get no reply. She used to reply within 5 mins of any text I sent but it is Sunday morning after a big night out and she had headed home with her friend.

Then on the Tuesday

Me:'Girl A are you around for a chat',
Her: 'I'm noooot, why? Did I do something wrong :-/'
Me: 'I'm wondering the same thing, Saturday night ended weird...'
Her: Haha let's just forget about Satuuuurday
Me: So you free this week theres this party on Thursday at Bar A
Her: Haha I don't like going there, but I will let you know. I'm at XXX looking after my family.
Me: Hope everything is ok with your family let me know when your back.

Since then it has been 4 days and a friend saw her out last night. What should I send, how long should I wait. I still don't know if she knows about Girl B or not just that in the end she wasn't into it and now I don't hear from her... I would be fine with this if things hadn't soured on Saturday without me knowing wtf happened, and although she isn't someone longterm she is a solid 9 who I would like to see more of.

Thanks

Btw if anyone from Auckland is interested in meeting up I would be keen, I'm still new but have had some ok results, big swings though...