Just out of a relationship and back into the game. After two nights out i've gotten three n-closes and two k-closes but i've not messaged these women back. The first messaged me immediately but I wasn't interested. The second I just didn't message. The third is buried in my phone book(Can't remember her name :/).

With the second girl it's been three days now since I n-closed and k-closed. I've not messaged her at all. Is it too late? When should I be messaging women after spending the night with them? The day after or does it really matter?

Cheers guys!

Interesting question and I suppose a hard one to answer. I would say the next day just a short one saying - it was nice meeting you yesterday hopefully we are in contact soon.. Then wait and call her i dunno 48 hours later. I tend to wait too long and I feel that fenmales lose interest or get disheartened and think he isn;t realy interested if he hasn;t contracted me yet.

I just left a voice message on the phone of a fenmale that I met close to two weeks ago (we were on the couch together making our for a while) however I'm half not expecting her to call back due to the time I have taken.

Thanks for the reply.

Seems this instance sorted itself out. On the third day she messaged me. Infact she messaged me only an hour or so after I originally posted this. Haha.

Seems abit long to wait to message baqck somebody - but i suppose its better than never. Hope it goes well for you.