Hi,

I need some point of view and advise from you guys.

Yesterday I meet a girl and everything was fine, but when I was closing to date her

Me: Lets have a coffee tomorrow!
She: Yes, I like the idea!
Me: I'll pick up you at 9..
She: AM or PM?
Me: You know it! haha
She: No I don't! At 9 AM I can't, at 9 PM I have dinner (here I don't really know how to answer)
Me: Ok lets eat something at 9 PM lady..
She: Great!

Usually, I don't tell girls that I'm meeting for the first time to go for a dinner, so I'm not comfortable with what I did.. (I really going to take her to a some casual place, nothing fancy)

Can you guys let me know if I was wrong on what I did? Can you guys tell me how it going to influence this on her perception of my value as a sexual partner?

Thanks a lot!

I personally like dinner dates. I know that is contrary to most PUA literature however it really depends. I am good at conversation so I like environments where I can converse a lot. I also don't care about the cost of dinner so paying/not paying and all that bs is irrelevant to me. You might wanna just do drinks but at night if you are not comfortable in conversation (routines etc. can only get you so far). Whatever you do though, do not do a coffee date during the day. That is the biggest waste of time ever.Coffee dates fucking suck, and day dates suck also. Society basically pounds into us that night time is romantic and day time is not. Why fight thousands of years of societal pressure by trying to be romantic and seductive during the day? Do it at night. Also, night time is logistically better for a same night lay if things go really well.

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I personally dont like dinner first dates becauseif.you cant keep a convo going.and get to an awkward silence its.over, i would pick her up and surprise her by going to the beach instead, get something quick to eat, walk along the shore, tease her, kino, escalate and kiss close,surprise her, dinner dates.are boring

You already have the dinner date set so nothing to think about. Go somewhere that has a bar get a drink. If that goes well then sit down and have dinner. Lead the interaction, the good thing about going to dinner with a girl you don't know that well usually they do most of the talking. Just add some comments here and there throw out a couple of jokes and your in. Good luck

If you're going to dinner, split the bill. DON'T PAY FOR THE WHOLE TAB.
If you go to a bar, bounce a lot around in the bar area, and even bar hop. Lead the way and be authoritative and commanding "Let's go over here, it's quieter" "This place is getting packed, let's move to this other bar."