Hi guys! I need a piece of an advice...

Two weeks ago on Friday I went with some friends of mine into a night club... I was in a mind set-up to have fun, but not to pick-up any girls... Anyway, I opened a set of three girls, with me having no sexual intents, just to have fun... Just at the time I´ve opened the set, my friends wanted to change the location, so I told them, that I´ll rejoin them later and told to my target (I´ve already changed the mind set to pick one of these girls up), that I´ll have to leave soon... Eventually, we ended up chatting for quite some time (like two hours or so) with me softly kino escalating, then she asked me for the phone number and girls left... Which I was cool with, because I was confident, she´ll call me tomorrow... I´ve rejoined my cousin and we left for another nightclub... I was surprised, that she called an hour later... we met her and her friend with my cousin and went to his small restaurant, where we held private karaoke party until morning (was really fun and entertaining for girls too)... I´ve tried again to kino escalate, but this time I felt a little bit of resistance (might have been caused be previously asking her if she´s a good kisser, which have probably indicated her my interest), so I pulled back and switched back to "fun mode"... They left together in the morning with taxi...

The facts I found out during this first meeting with her were favorable - she is HB 8 or 9, has a boyfriend, which is perfect, because I´ve a girlfriend too and we both now about it, what makes it ideal for her to be my lover and vice versa

I met her once from that time - last Tuesday we arranged a meeting, originally agreed to go for some drinks, but I was hungry, so we ended up in a restaurant (sitting across the table with almost no possibility to naturally kino escalate) having pleasant talk and then we switched to gay karaoke bar, where we drunk some vodkas and she sang a song and dedicated it to me, I´ve kino escalated, while she wasn´t objecting about me touching her anytime, anywhere... I knew her boyfriend was out of the town, so I thought it´s certain, that I´ll f-close her that night... Eventually, I ended up with a kiss in a taxi...

Next day at about lunchtime I wrote her a text message: "What have we done again on yesterday? ......... Are you already functioning? Come to see "my" buildings, I´ll make you a private tour "
She responeded with the reply, where she has written about how hang-over she feels and that she´s going die, but at the end of the message she wrote "buuut it was sooo goood yesterday"
I then wrote her, that she shouldn´t be worried and that she´ll surely get over the hang-over and to call after meeting she had scheduled...
Then again, she responded with a message, that her boyfriend is coming over now and they´re leaving for vacation until Sunday and that she´ll contact me afterwards...
I wrote her: "...... OK, contact me " (Because I´m cool with her being with her boyfriend and I don´t want to destroy her relationship - I´m happy in my mine relationship as well, and would take her only as a lover)

During our last meeting, we have pre-agreed to meet tomorrow (Tuesday again), but until now, she hasn´t contacted me...

SHOULD I CONTACT HER (and if yes with what response) or SHOULD I WAIT FOR HER TO CONTACT ME?

Whoever will take time to read it and gives me an advice - thank you!

Anyone have clue what to do? Thanks guys...

I am no expert, but if she told you she would meet you at a certain time, and then does not that is a good indicator that you are not her number one priority.

I have had girls meet me at 3:00 in the morning, and I have had girls that live in the apartment complex that said they would be over in a few hours but never showed up.

The bottom line is that if a girl really wants to meet you she will. If a girl does not meet you do not assume the worst, and just wait a while before contacting her again.

Thanks for your opinion...

In a meanwhile, we got in touch (I wrote her as first) and I´ve also met her... But I´ve escaleted little bit too less during our meeting, so now I´m stuck at the same point - I wrote her, but no response to my last message since... Eventhough I´m almost sure she likes me...

For the last time, I´ve written her on Saturday night something like: "Hey babe, partying? "

So now, I´m thinking about waiting for her reaction and not writing her until she initiates or waiting until the next week and writing her only afterwards...

What do you think?

One week sounds solid. Personally I am not a big fan of small talk over the phone. Most of the time I wit until I have a party or something awesome going on, and then I invite the girl to join in on my fun.