Hey guys.

There's this girl in college with me which I see only in the hallways of our building.

I just randomally started smiling at her and she did as well and we got to talk a few times.. she seemed kinda into me.

A few monthes has passed and I never really knew how to take things to the next level since I almost never get to talk to her, I just see her in the hallways and we just say hi to each other.

So last week I decided to try the direct approach.

When I saw her in the hallway I just said "Hey I know it's kinda akward, but would you go out with me?"

I've always been a direct guy, I hate playing games, I like to just offer myself to cute girls and shrug and move on if they're not into me.

So her answer was "Umm... I guess we could hang out sometime..", I said "Cool" and took her phone number.

I texted "Hey It's me, have my number" an hour later, she didn't answer the text.

Actually, she's a shy girl and she's really not into texting, she never does that.

I called the day after to ask her out, she said she cant to it today and that I should call tomorrow.

The day after I texted her "So today we go out, when are you available?", she didn't answer that text until late at night when she texted "Sorry, I had a really busy day.. we should postpone it to a different time".

I called immediately and told her we should meet up this weekend, she said: "Let's talk on the weekend and see how things go.. I'll call you on friday when I'm home"

I waited and she didn't call...

It's been a few days since then, and I've seen her in the hallways and she acts as if nothing happend, just says Hi as always.

Should I give it up? I feel like if I'll ask her out again I'll be stressing her.

What should I do guys??

You waited too long, and thus came across as awkward. Since you and this girl live at the same place she is trying to be nice to you. My advice is to wait for her, or if you are determined to ask her out, I'd invite her to a college party (low pressure and low commitment for her). As for being direct, you waited too long and came off as awkward.

I was in a similar situation as you and the mental frame I use is that the right time never comes. Additionally, life is short so go for it at the first opportunity. My situation is that there was a building meeting for all the new residences. I kept eying down the girl I liked while the RA's discussed the rules. After thee meeting was over I approached the girl and her friends and said, "want to get fucked up and go to the pool." All four came to my place for shots, and I got all of their numbers. and the girl I like is starting to chase after me. This was a few days ago.

Bottom line is that in college the people that try the least usually get the most. People expect to have sex in college, so be direct and flirt with girls the first time you see them.