A girl I was flirting with a few weeks ago sent the message:

"Do you remember me?"

What would you respond to this query?


My first action would be to respond something like, "Is this the cute girl I met on a random trip?". Or replace 'cute' to 'funny' so it won't be too direct. Yet, overall, I think I should send a better one.

So, what would you respond to this query?

I would keep it simple actually:

"Of course, how's life treating you?"

Or bring up an inside joke or something you may have established:

"You ever find the gay camel you were in search of?" (used this once)

The latter is much better because you're already touching on a mutually exclusive theme and it will instantly spark conversation and rapport.

Thanks. What if I say something like:

"Maybe. I have to make sure. What was the game we played all night at the beach?"

or

"Maybe. Did we play a game at the beach when we met?"

'Maybe' so it's a bit playful. Then continue with questions about the weekend we met. It could remind her of the fun time we had.

I like the one above. And like you said, do some reminiscing about the good times and transition that into plans for the future.

Good luck man!

Thanks. How do I transition?

Texting -> Meeting up

You have the base rapport, now just use that connection with her to meet up for a date.

After some text bantering, reminiscing about the trip and maybe some inside jokes, bring up something fun to do and ask her if shes interested.

Good luck!

Yup, if your game is smooth, this will happen a lot because she suspects you are a player, and you should anticipate it happening more as you get better. I'm pretty new to pickup and I'm already seeing this happening more and more ("do you even remember what I look like?" "What's my name?" etc)

+1 on referencing something you talked about. One trick I do is "planting" a reference to use in the future. Plant a question or statement that will set up an inside joke in the future. For example, when you isolated her and establishing rapport, she might say something like what she does for a living. Then say "OH MY GOD, that sounds like such a boring job! But I bet you are fun at night though, right?" Fast forward a few days later, and when she texts or calls "do you even remember me?" you respond back "yeah, you're that chick with that boring job. Aren't you glad you met me?"

Co-sign with yellow fever above, great way to keep things exclusive.

you have been given some good advice but as an aside your above texting rejoinder is a very bad idea.

Girls dont like being thought of as "random" and forgettable so I always overemphasis how much I remember them by presenting any vague details that occur to me concerning our meaningless and forgettable initial meeting. She is asking "do you remember me" specifically because she doesn't want to consider herself some solicitous desperate loser, be very careful not to militate her worry's. Comedy is a great way to deflect this.

btw whether you say cute or funny is trivial.

thanks. but fuck off. the others were more constructive.