My gf wants to BU with me...she told me in the phone and we agreed to meet in 3 days.e were together for 2 years.we were madly in love but now she isn't.i feel she got bored of me...no there is no one elsee.the fact is i justify her.i became very boring.sometimes we have nothing to say...i always had insecuryties about my look and now i can' t hide them.our nights out are puzza and dvd in my home.s**t.how i became like that?so pathetic?i think the best thing is to let her go...i can't offer her nothing better...this was a wake-up call for me...i need to change!to work with my self..what do you think?should i act like that?or ask for a second chance?can a woman fall back in love with an ex?

Yes, she can fall in love with you again. But you need to offer a different, more winning image.
In the meantime, while she's gone, stay active, spend as much time as you can with good company, and possibly chase other girls.
Avoid staying home alone, only allow 30 minutes a day to be sad.
When she leaves you, don't moan, say you agree, that it's best for you too, altough you'll miss her. That you'll work on yourself.

I broke up with my gf after 9 years in May, and after that I went out for 50 days in a row... I was mad at the beginning, but after that things got better, I found another one in a very random way, and my gf came back running.
If someone told me this was going to happen 2 months ago, I'd have thought he was joking.

Seriously, I know how it is, but see it a possibility for an improvement in your life (be it with your previous gf or not) and not as the end!

Good luck

Dude months ago the same happen to me. So after a minute of being mad i said fuck this shit, hit the gym, took a damn dance class and started chasing others even changed my hair (I did this all to win her back) but after a while of chasing and finding success with other chicks, you don't care about the ex anymore. and the CHERRY ON TOP is that when you stop caring: they ALWAYS come back running.

stop worrying and just do you.

I don't if that is true or i need to believe it..!that a woman who fall out of love with you can fall in love with you again-even after months of NC.any more opinions?

Personally i started gym and tango!just for the fun.and i bought new clothes!i m very excited now eith myself!

So we've met.she told me that she loves me but she isn't in love with me anymore.that our relationship made her circle inside her and it's over...she was crying.in the end she hanged me 3 times and she kissed me.i couldn't believe it but i accept it.told her how important she was for me...and she told me that now now i am willing to satisfy her complaints she doesn't feel it....crapppppppp

If she is going to BU, all you can do is to break up with first, that way you will keep higher ground.

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Here is a method that will show you the path. If she breaks up with you first than ask her this : are you sure? yeah? ok than. bye and walk away, don't look back and try to keep it toghether, keep calm and cool... at least fake it till you make it and the time is right you shall game har all over again.

Good luck mate!

I think AFCAdam once gave advises for reattractting a girl...do you have the llink?

I copied the text below from the website: www.romancecheater.com (written by Rico The Lothario). It's worth reading... Hope it helps! All the best...

There isn’t much to say on this topic but it’s still worthy of discussion. Even the best player will find himself in situations where the girl leaves him unexpectedly for another man (or a better player). You can’t win them all and you won’t win them all. It’s just the nature of the game.

Most men handle rejection from women terribly and take it very personal. Even initial rejections when asking for a woman’s phone number is enough to depress some men.

Keep Your Dignity

A player never grovels. If you get dumped you should simply accept it and even support it. I’ve said several times in this blog that it’s best to leave first when you see things slipping. However, leaving first is not always possible. Some women will drop you without showing any prior signs of slipping interest level. If a woman dumps you, no matter what the method she uses, make sure you don’t engage in any of the following weak behavior:

-Asking for an explanation
-Agreeing to talk about it
-Arguing
-Trying to change her mind
-Insulting or cursing at her
-Crying
-Groveling
-Agreeing to be “friends”

Lay Down The Law

While you can’t keep a woman from leaving.. you CAN still control how you deal with it. Many guys allow a woman to dump them, then continue to be in that woman’s life in hopes of getting back together. Ironically, this is likely the reason she dumped him in the first place – she figured out that she can have a relationship with him without banging him. So why bother?

When men stay in a woman’s life after getting dumped, they are flushing away their last scrap of control in that relationship. YES, you still have some power after she dumps you. You have the power to “finish the relationship off”. After all, women like happy endings where everyone is still friends. You have the power to deny her this. However, this is not the main reason for avoiding her after a break up. The real reason you should walk away is because you must ALWAYS live on your own terms as a player. Being with a woman you want to bang but can’t is not living on your terms.. its living on HER terms.

This is a golden rule for being a true player: A WOMAN ONLY GETS ONE CHANCE PER LIFETIME TO DUMP YOU.

No man should ever give a woman a second chance to dump him. NEVER.

This is why you should say the following words to any woman who breaks up with you:

“If you leave, don’t come back”.

Those six words will haunt her long after the relationship has ended. They completely rob her of any power to manipulate or play games post-break-up. She can NEVER come back. This will not sit well with her. Most passive men see this as too “mean”. They are still looking out for a woman who is basically telling him he isn’t good enough for her and she can do better. If she can do better, why should you be her fall back in case she finds out later that she CAN’T do better? And believe me.. this happens often. That’s why the best thing you can say to a woman who dumps you is: “Don’t come back”.

A woman only gets ONE chance to dump a player.

Do what George did on Seinfeld. Break up with her FIRST! Be like "You know what, I've been feeling this for a long time, things just aren't working out and we arn't made for eachother" talk about something from months ago that made you PO'd she will then think that is the reason things aren't working good and then she will supplicate. When she does backwards rationalize like she would saying " you know we have been together for so long it would be a waste to throw it all away, you are right, maybe we should give this another chance."

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