OK so I got chatting to an ex I haven't spoken to in a couple of years and it occurred to me that I would REALLY, REALLY enjoy banging her again lol. She was pretty wild. Anyway I asked her if she wanted to meet up she said yeah she wouldn't mind meeting for a "catchup". I don't want to get back together or anything I just want to bang her on occasion.

Basically I don't know how to play it when I meet up with her. What does she mean when she says "catchup"? Do i still need to attract, build comfort etc? To the same extent as with a new girl? How should I make it clear to her I want to bone her but not get back together? What about kino, will she think its weird if i start trying all that shit and she think's its just a catchup?

For background, I broke up with her, although I was a bit of a dick about it so I think she might be a bit wary.

There is a saying in the pick-up community of "Go fuck 10 other women."

Do this... you will realize that there are other girls out there who are just as wild (if not more wild) in bed who you don't have previous baggage with. She is an ex for a reason.