Hello, face to face I'm confident, with voice on phone I'm confident! With text I'm borderline retarded. I'm a people person and like real human interaction, I find text so sterile and frankly often don't understand what the other person is saying because subtle cues get missed and subtle contexts etc. recently had my third meet up with a girl I'm interested in. Had been for two coffees low key for first meetups as had very little free time and she lives two hours away. Those short meet ups went well and she suddenly decided she wanted to come visit my town, she travelled two hours to meet me, to cut long story short I took her to park to lie in sun and listen to some live music (also wanted to get her close to me on rug so I could build up to next stage). Well I put my arm round her to let her rest head and she suddenly started making out with me, lots of kissing was very sexual etc, she wanted me to have sex with her but the situation prevented it and her train was due to leave. So third date went very well, since then she's been texting me on phone a lot. She has very busy work hours, but we do manage to fit in phone conversations. My issue is because I'm TERRIBLE at text game I don't wanna mess it all up!
Basically she's told me she wants me to have sex with her, and she's clearly attracted but I'm maintaining this via text until I can meet again. For example I do want her as a girlfriend, and one day she text me saying she's looking forward to meeting again and I said "ok cool let me know..... will feel good to get my arms around you again" so my question is does saying things like that make me seem a soppy desperate loser? All advice welcome.

I'm new here so bare with me but I feel like you her so infested in you lines like that will only strengthen the comfort you have already built, stay on the romantic cycle seeing as how u want to date her. I think your fine try to say those things on the phone so she can here your voice and really connect with what your saying.