So im studying in london this semester but I met this cute girl awhile back. I didnt really talk to her but i saw her tonight at a pub. We stayed together for most of the night drinking. Her friends came over and tried to cockblock me but she still stayed with me. I even helped to fend off some sleazy guys so she would like me more.

All in all i thought it was going great. I used a lot of kino and she didnt seem to mind. I even touched her hair and she let me go. Although at one point i put my arm around and touched her side but she moved my hand. We ended up dancing and I tried to kiss close but she didnt want any of it! I dont understand what happened bc she really seemed into me.

We even walked together on the way back home with her friends trailing her. Basically i thought she could ditch me anytime she wanted but she stayed with me. I need advice on what I should do next bc i could really use the help!! Thanks!

-Chris

It's been a while, and nobody posted here, and I'll just tell you why. It's impossible to tell what you did wrong or right, because you don't have that 'vision' yet. Where you can capture important details and convey them to us. So long story short, with everything you told us, you did great. But it's obvious she isn't in to you based on the end results. Sorry man, keep trying.

My advice, just look for a different girl. But knowing that level you are at, you wont take it. Try to set the boundary's for your relationship as soon as possible, don't be stuck in the LJBF zone.

[EDIT] Sorry, the site was being slow and I clicked submit twice.
[EDIT again] After rereading your post and giveing it some more thought I can tell you exactly what happened. Smartstyle is right, you didn't create any attraction, and you moved in the LJBF zone. She probably thought you were an incredibly nice guy and didn't want to be mean to you, so she didn't tell you off.
Did you get her number at the end of the night?

I would speculate that you were very successful creating comfort, but there was too little attraction. I think, you moved directly to the LJBF zone.

I think you need to get some kino in there asap. but to me it sounds like you have attracted her already, so you dont need to worry about that. she wants to be with you, so just show her who you are, be you're self around her. and have fun. and kino mucho. good luck.

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hey guys thanks for the help so far...heres an update on what has happened. After a week of not talking I messaged her:

Me: i know you may not be into this whole craze called 'fun' so you will be relieved to know that I will be able to take some time out of my busy schedule to meet up with you later this week…that is if you repay me a drink

Her: We'll see. I have things to do too you know. When were you thinking?

Me: I'm going to be busy tonight and tomorrow, but lets get together on friday. Ill give you a call on friday to figure things out.

Her:I'm going to try to get theater tickets for Friday evening, so if that works out then I don't have time to meet on Friday. Maybe Saturday?

Now im not sure what I should respond. I feel like I should not accept her offer because a) she said maybe b) I should be the man and let her know that she needs to see me on my time and c) I dont want to accept and be like I dont have anything better to do on saturday.

What ideas do you guys have on this?