This has been going on for a few months with a girl at work. I've kissed closed this girl. We have kissed numerous times over a period of a few weeks. I was however unsuccessful in escalating when I got her alone at my place and was resisted with LMR of I've got a boyfriend and push and pull.. I got so close though. Bit of background, we both got together because we were both weren't happy with our current relationships. Mine ended, yet she wont end hers. Now it feels like I'm just being used because I'm giving her what her boyfriend doesn't with attention and connection... yet she goes off and fucks him. I have made mistakes and dlv a bit when I couldn't overcome her lmr plus also i cant help but get jealous.. because fuck.. she should be fucking me! We have since had a few talks and I've re-iterated that I'm not going to be just the guy on the side to her and reminded her that if she really loved him then well she wouldn't be cheating on him. I told her also that I'm currently looking to maybe pursue another girl to create some jealousy.. which did make her annoyed. Should I just wait it out and let her boyfriend screw things up and then make a move? Should I act like I don't care? I really want to bed this girl though.. . What can I do to get her to leave him? And to see that she should be with me instead? Right now it feels like we are not really talking though... as I have pushed her to break up with him a bit lately.. doe that mean that I have screwed this all up? Should I forget about the whole thing? Advice please!