Long rant in short version:
Is it possible to get out of the friend zone any longer?
Yesterday I met this woman and rather spontaniously went out with her. Everything went well at first, she was beautiful, surprisingly interesting and a nice girl to spend time with. Then we come to the kiss closing part...
It was clear that she would not have minded us getting a bit closer. And no, I do not say this often because I'd think every woman loves my charms (quite the opposite), but this girl was interested by the way she looked at me, came close to me and so on. She dimmed the lights, changed her shirt in front of me and said she looks my appearance, for example.
My PUA skills are very low and my looks is average. Sometimes I still score and this seemed a great opportunity for that. We got together well and I asked if she wanted to kiss me and asked her to come next to me. There was no kinoing or anything smooth before that, we had complimented each other's appearences but that was it (and it might have been a wrong thing to do also...) for my game moves.
Kissing is what usually seals the deal with me, since that goes well - usually. This time it was horrible, she wasn't the best kisser but I was, for reasons unknown, horrible. I am a good kisser but this time it was very bad. It only lasted a moment and she backed away, which is something I've never experienced. She said that let's just keep continuing this what we were doing before and moved again a meter away from me. Shiiiiit!
After that, everything soon started to go nicely again after the few awkward minutes. But it was just "nice". No longer there was that feeling in the air. We went out for a walk, were a bit drunk and had a "nice" time. Something like friends would have, which is not bad but you know... As we where slightly drunk, she bumbed from time to time to me, and an able person could have done kinoing but not me.
I escorted her home, she asked if I left something in her house (aka. "wanna come in?") and came even to escort ME for a while(!?). These may sound like she was very much into me but actually after the kissing it just seemed that she enjoyed my company like friends do. Then again, "did you left something inside?"... It was late, I didn't want to continue the talking any longer and didn't left anything inside so I left. She said she'll text me or write me but I won't count on that.
I would love to see this girl again. I don't want a serious relationship with her, but I enjoyed spending time with her and believe I would very much enjoy to spend time in her as well
Now, gentlemen, please help me. Did I ruin my own game too bad already or is there anything to do?
What to do?
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