Hey guys...just met a stunner last week, and got in contact with her in fbook. She gave me nice IOI's and thought i wrote funny messages. I think I overdid it with the cocky message and she cooled down..
On the night out I joked that I was gonna find a boyfriend for her as she was too young for me...the I admidded I ran in to him at the restroom. I was looking at him when I was washing my hands... lol

I said in the mails i had the feeling that she liked me, and that my friends and me had an age formule for deciding if a girl would be dateable. She didn't fit in...so To hell with the rules!!
Her: You always and your feelings...how did you think that I might like you? I actually think we're two totally different types of people. I am going to Italy for a kickboxing tournament, and I think that that's not your thing.. It sounds like you had a great time on your night out last week. Too bad I couldn't laugh with you guys...and I am curious about that formula...
Me: That you liked me? That was soooo clear... I saw on your body language that your were ready to kiss me any time. I am surprised that you managed to hold yourself. Respect!! Haha, joke..
Good to hear that you have a passion. Nothing wrong with that. I will encourage you right here.
Formula I will explain later...it is not to leave the men's world. Forbidden to women!! Kick some ass in Italy...

The she fell still for 4 days...while she previously replied instantly.
Last night I sent an mail...
Me: And...did you win? Now going out with the guys...nice party.
She : (at 3 am, hours after my message) Undecided

Did I lose her? I had the feeling she was interested...she's 22 and I am 35...

By the way...for curious guys...the formula is Age man / 2 + 7 = minimum age girl...

Thanks guys

Where'd you get that formula for minimum age? Made it up?

This is why I hate fb/texting game. It's so dumb. Just invite her to hang out and let things escalate in person. Stop being a pussy by trying to get into her pants on fb.

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What is this? This is WEAK. If you say something why do you add: "Haha, joke". It's like you're afraid if she takes this seriously. This message CRIES of desperation. If you engage her sexually you don't tell her it was a joke. Are you trying to make her wet, or do you just want to be a smartass?
Again... what is this? Why are you messaging her with insigificant stuff like that? How's this getting you closer to bang her?

And you're also trying too hard to appear misterious with this stupid age formule.

The problem was not too cocky. The problem is your weak frame.

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Thanks guys...this is the criticism i need. So what would be the great idea to meet up? Just mail her something like:

I have to confess .....name babe...I know i was looking for a great guy for you in the club, but not a single guy I saw last week comes close to me. So it would be a crime if the two of us won't get to meet up. Let me know if you're back in Holland on wednesday...we can go for a drink...

(that goes back to a joke I made in the club...that made her laugh a lot)

I wouldn't even say anything about the connection part. Just 'let's meet up this week' or instead of week, the day you want to meet up.

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I think this is a pretty clear 'No, I don't want to date or fuck you'. I would recommend focusing your energy elsewhere. If, however, you are intent on pursuing this girl, do it like Positron says: no excuses, and no expectations.

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^This

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This^^^

Facebook/Text/Phone game should be for logistical purposes only. Fuck all that other bullshit. Quit being a pussy.