So i been texting with my dreamgirl for a couple month now. The thing about it is, she knows that i love her...
Now actually everything is alright. When i text her, she texts back asap. Sometimes she starts to text me too. So from that point of view everything is okay.
Now the problem is i think we´re texting to much "friens zone" stuff like " how are you?" or "what you doing?" or just texting about random stuff. Stuff that happend on one of our last dates or some silly things.
I always try to keep it on a level beyond "friend zone" by texting her kiss smilies or giving her pet names i usually give her when we´re on a date.
But most of the time (not every time though) her reply is quite short or she doesnt really attend to the nice stuff im texting. At least not the way i want her to...
What would be a great way to start the text "conversation" and what do you cecommend to text her to keep her wanting texting with me. To get out of this friend zone? Or just some text game tips in general.

Now just a quick note: I know calling and SEEING each other is better than texting. And we DO date quite often. But unfortunately the whole "SPAM" texting thing is very popular here in Europe and Germany, i dont see any way to go without texting...

A couple months and you still haven't had sex?

How do you call her your dream girl? What if she has a dick?

Wouldnt give a shit bout texting her if i had sex with her, right?... Because then she´d call me her boyfriend and everything would be okay. But first i´ve got to break this friend zone again...

You should definitely stop texting her. Your main goal should be to meet up with her. If you text her you're just one of MANY other men doing the same thing. She'll think you're average. It's the worst thing that can happen to you. That way you loose attraction and you'll never be able to get more out of it.
The reason you ended up in the friend zone in the first place was that you wrote too much.

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Okay... well i stopped texting her now. We didn´t text for like 4 days now. Last time we texted i asked her for a date but she said she has no time this week. Well... i said "alright" and ended the conversation. Her reply was "Sorry".
I see her at work every day but she wont text me... To be honest it feels bad. Im checking my fucking phone every hour to see if she finally texts me. I feel so stupid...On the other hand i dont want to be the one who starts the conversation again. She´ll be like "I knew you would text me again. Dont act like you can go longer than a week without texting me"... Keep on waiting or send her a message? Any tips?

Just don't text her.

Great decision. SHE just texted me. Took 4 days but worked. She was like "Hey how you doing" and stuff like that.
She was asking many things, but i kept answers short and said i will tell her everything next time we actually SEE each other. Surprisingly her questions and answers got longer. When i didnt reply within a minute she went on and asked a new question or texted something else.

I'm gonna try this also. I've been initiating. I guess if she's attracted to me she will text me. If she doesn't then oh well. On to the next one.