Ok, first off i am not very experienced in any way and want some advice on the best way to deal with this situation.

Basically on Saturday night in a club (one day music festival) very drunk got with this very hot Eastern European girl. Ended up taking her back to mine, and went all the way, both that night and also in the morning where she stayed for about 4 hours after waking up and seemed pretty receptive. I asked her what she was looking for at the moment and she said casual as mainly she was moving to the United States sometime soonish. Great by me, she is almost 10 years older than me (which is hard to tell from her side) as i am 21.

Anyway i want to know how to deal with this. Seeing as i saw her off at 3pm when shall i text her and what shall i say? Do i text her today or tomorrow? 3 day rule? She has a busy 9-6 job in the week so weekend better, as in this weekend? I've never really had anything casual like this before and much of my sexual partners have been once or twice and people who i've not really wanted to go further with, so it's nice to feel different with this one.

As you can see i'm quite limited in knowing how to deal with this sort of situation and don't want to mess it up so would appreciate the help!

This is what you do.

Write a text: "This weekend at my place?"

It's gonna be a sex date. But the sex was good. So good chances she'll come. After all she doesn't have a steady sex partner as she's prepping for the states.

Alternative route would be to ask her out to cinema, drinks, disco, whatever. However this is down the relationship path. She probably doesn't want that considering her talk about leaving to the states. Even if it is bullcrap, it's still a sign "back off with serious romantic involvement."

Since you already banged her, chances are great you get a positive response with such a text. Don't make too much of it. Don't show your true feelings.

Know that you will inevitably lose this chick since you can easily develop feelings for her, if you secretly don't have them already. Women are allergic to that.

Cheers for this.

Well i text her last night and didn't get a reply. Asked her basically what she was up to on the weekend. Any way i can follow this up? I'm reckoning i've got one final hit at this one - text her something more clear, and be more obvious i want casual too, or add her to facebook? Her name isn't fake as i found her on there so i'm guessing the number is fine.

As i said this is my first real experience of this type of situation - I worked out the positives were that she was there when we woke up next day and was receptive, talked, had sex etc. and then wanted me to walk her to the train station.

Just left a bit frustrated as she would be a great sex buddy to have, but seems like something has gone wrong somewhere!

So yeah what should i do?

Nothing went wrong. Everything went as is predictable.

What reason does she have to stick around you? Does she need you for career, support, providing, etc?

No. Only for comfort, company and sex.

She can get that from other guys, too. Even if the sex is good.

Hence she acts in the way that she does.

My advice: add her to facebook and harass her there until she gives in or blocks you. Nothing to lose on this chick as she'll be gone to the states soon anyway.

Well you know you can pull hot Eastern European girls now so go out and pull another one.