Hi guys this is my story!
I met this girl on facebook 3 weeks ago. She is from my city but she was on erasmus so we couldn met.
She gave me her number so we were texting each other every day. She was always the one to start conversation ecc...
Last thursday she came back from erasmus. On saturday she texted me she was goingo to pass saturday night home so i told her to come out with me.
She accepted but she stated that she was going to go out with me as friend...O_O. I told her that i ave already too many friends and to little time while smiling!
The dinner went very well! We had a lot of fun altough it was the first time seeing each other. I tried to do some light kino and she never rejected...But i couldnt find an opening to kiss her.
Next day, while we were texting each other, she told me she found a work in a city 8 hours distant from my home. Hearing that i told her “so i have to tell you goodbye coz i dont wanna speak to a girl that i cannot see” she answered “hey i was just jocking, i’ve just returned home, now i wanto to spend some time here”. (I think she did all this joke just to test me)
Yesterday she told me she didnt know where to go to lunch, i told her to come with me and she accepted...but than again she said...i just wanto to be friend, i told her i would never be his friend and we went to eat...We had a great time altough we had only one hour...
Today i told her i will never see her as a friend. She answered the opposite, so i told her there was no sense in continuing to text or see each other! She asked why i couldn’t try to go out with her as a friend i told her “No way” and so i told her to stop searching me!
That’s it for now. I really like this girl but i assure you i’m not being needy ecc but i would like some advice to overcome this friend thing she has!!
If you want some clarification just ask it J!!
Every advice is accepted!!

You showed character man.

A long discussion between myself and PUA Ninja about this same topic eventually came to the conclusion that women condition men to lie. Perhaps she wanted you as lover but then she didn't speak out for it. But you did the right thing not to sit around at her dinner table as her trophy.

Maybe you've got what it takes to join the fight against cultural marxism. We are assembling an army of PUA's.

problem is that she didnt move a bit from her position she was still saying only friend!

There is only a problem if you consider that as a problem.

If you do not consider it as a problem, it means you do not allow yourself to be manipulated by her friendzone games. It means you have self-value.

If you consider it as a problem, you are showing to be this self-confident guy who's cool with himself, while secretly still fretting yourself from inside out "oh oh oh, how could I fail I wanted to fuck this girl, I desire her so much, where did I go wrong? what's wrong with me???"

Meaning cognititive dissonance, as you think and feel exactly the opposite of how you behave.