Possible lay with a Chinese girl tonight : Advice needed

Date 1:
To cut a long story short, I messaged this Chinese girl (good body but a not so good face) on OkCupid last month. Asked her out for a coffee after exchanging a few interesting messages on OkCupid. The girl is from Beijing and working in a software company in Chinatown, DC. We planned to meet for coffee at Starbucks after work (school for me). The girl is not as weird as the common Chinese girls that I see in campus but still not like easy going like American girls (good thing that she has fucked before as per her OkCupid asnwers). Anyway, she mentioned that she will be wearing a yellow jacket, in case I can't find her (my phone's battery was running low). I went to the Starbucks and I just could not see any girl wearing a yellow jacket. My phone's battery had died and hence I was about to leave and then I saw an asian chick looking at me. Holy fuck, she was wearing a jacket that was nowhere near to being yellow, it was more like brown. Walked up to her and asked in a confident manner if she is waiting for me. She said yes. Gave her a firm (hugs for later) handshake and started teasing her a bit (my motto now a days nothing sexual on the first date at all). The Starbucks was cramped and I suggested that we take a walk to a park and find a better place to sit down. She was cool with that and we headed to the National Mall. Sat down there and started exchanging stories (no gamey stuff on D1 now a days). She was laughing her heart out while listening to my crazy DHV childhood stories and was definitely having a good time. Held her hands for a while and then let it go intentionally. Walked to the metro and on the way we stopped by her favorite froyo place.. Took our seats together on the metro and started showing her my favorite Star Wars character (Darth Maul) on my laptop. It was time for her to get off the metro and I gave her a quick hug (she was kinda unwilling to let me go. lol) and she said that she would like to see me again.


Date 2:
Anyway, we both got really busy in the next two weeks due to work. I did not keep on texting her as she did not seem to be all that interested in exchanging texts. Planned on a second date after work yesterday. She was waiting for me after work and I was late for the date due to a meeting with my advisor. She was a bit upset but I handled it pretty well. Asked her if she wants to go to a bar. She said that she can't eat/drink anything cold as she is having her periods (fucking weird!)!.. Anyway we went to a bar and I started having a beer while she had a glass of wine. Kinoed her during the whole time as she was very receptive to it (she was grabbing my hands herself, playing with my fingers and all). A little bit of sexual talk. Everything went great. She started talking about games that Chinese girls play and I playfully told her not to play any such shit with me as I have a great nose for bullshit and such crap might be a dealbreaker. She just moved closer to my place (bringing her to my place is out of question) and wants to go explore a mall on the third date . Went back to the metro. I could clearly see that she wanted to kiss me. However once I went for it, she gave me only a little peck on my lips and said that it is a public place. Boarded the metro and and we kept on having a good time during the ride as well. I was constantly playing with her hair, touching her waist, (she was complaining that she was fat and I was saying that she is in decent shape), pushing-pulling her gently towards my body etc etc. Towards the end she was cool with resting her body on my chest and head on my shoulder. I went for a kiss and she pointed to her cheek again saying it was a public place. I gave her a NO. She was literally begging for it. Anyway, gave her a hug again as it was time to get off and pecked her cheek.


Date 3:
Anyway, I will be meeting her after work and will head to the mall together. My plan is to say that I would like to drop my backpack at her place as it is a bit heavy. Not planning to do anything then other than going for a make out (if I can pull it off smoothly based on the first half an hour, else no). Explore the mall and then then go back to her place to pick up the backpack. If possible I will fuck her, else I guess I will have to seal the deal on another day. I know that to wait for the 3rd date (or possible 4th in my case) for a fuck is a long time for many of you guys, but I guess this is fine for me as I am still not super confident in closing girls. I do fine on dates (no canned material) now a days but still need to be smoother in getting sexual.

I think she would fuck me if I can handle the LMR. I am sure that I will get lots of it (read somewhere that Asian girls raised in Asia do it just to show power). Any advice ?

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