Sooooo this might be kinda long but bear with me, I really need some advice... Back in October 2012 I went to a cultural gathering (Polish Oktoberfest lol) and I was pretty much just hanging out, getting hammered with my younger brother. He was about to leave for the Air Force Basic Training in a couple of months so we were just spending time together before he left. Then I saw this girl going around looking for a place to sit down and we both made eye contact. Almost immediately she came to my table and sat a few seats away from me but close enough for me to say hi and have a conversation with her. On drunkenness scale from 1-10 I was already at around 5-6 lol so pretty drunk but everything went pretty smooth, we had a good conversation going and a got her to laugh a lot. I ended up getting her number before she left. This was on a Saturday and I worked all week the following week and texted her back on the following Friday. No response.... so I though to myself "f**ck her... if she doesn't like me or doesn't wanna talk to me then she's not worth my time." I moved on.

A few months went by... They had another Polish Cultural Gathering at the same place. So I got a couple of my buddies to come with me and show them what Polish beer tastes like lol So here we go again. Drinking (we all blacked out by the end of that night haha), meeting some new girls, having a blast. Out of nowhere that chick I meet a few months back comes out. She's all enthusiastic, happy to see me, gives me a hug etc. We end up hanging out and talking for good 20-25 minutes. Then I asked her what happened and why didnt she text me back. She went off saying how she was out of town with her friends partying and she forgot who I was so she never replied, but she told me to text her again, whenever I wanna hang out. My old phone broke so I got her phone number again, then she left to go get her parents or something because they were all about to go home.

Now it's been over a month and I haven't done sh*t yet. I was thinking about texting her but do you guys think it's too late? Or maybe it's a good thing I waited this long since she pretty much ignored me in the past. What do you guys think I should do about her? I am interested in her, tho. What should I say besides "hey what's up?" lol

I found a few more phone numbers in my phone from that night, too. I remember that most girls we met that night were smokin hot so I guess some phone numbers might match the faces I remember haha. Is it too late to text any of those? It's a little different situation, tho because I interacted with those girls on one occasion. The only reason I haven't texted anyone back yet is because I've been busy with work or my friends keep inviting me over to parties at their house and stuff.

Do you want to hang out with her or not? If you do, call her if not leave it. You could text but you'd need to remind her who you are.

It might be a mistake but I always text the next day, if I plan on calling I usually wait a bit longer. You need to get her to invest in you before you can ignore her, otherwise who are you? Just some dude she talked to. It takes 30 seconds to write and send a text. Just do it, include something that she will remember from your interaction then leave it. If she likes you, she will reply. If not who gives a shit?