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Hey Guys,
I know this girl for 9 month now. She´s a friend of a friend but we did a lot going out together when lately things started to get more sexual. She started touching me while being drunk and we we´re txting a lot the last few weeks where she told me she really likes me.
I was in no place for any kind of a relationship then, because I need to figure out what I want in my life. I told her about that and said that I´d rather not see her so much anymore (actually told her thrice, because she wouldn´t have it).
One night she txt I should come over to talk, we talked but also slept together which took us both by surprise.
She told me she needed time to figure things out between us.
I asked a mutual friend for help because I couldn´t just wait for things to happen (that was why I wanted to be apart from her in the first place) the friend told her, and she said I made the whole thing up.
Now she won´t even talk to me anymore. I went to see her twice and then just left a flower and a letter to apologize, that I broke her trust and want to make it up to her and asked for another chance.
She txted me, said she received it and is glad that I realized that I did do her wrong.
We met yesterday at a friend´s and even though I tried to act normal it was very strange, we just talked a little with other friends but she kinda ignored me, though we looked in each others eyes a couple of times and I felt so relived and sensed that she liked it, too..
I already know that I told her everything I wanted to say and there´s nothing else for me to do but wait.. but if you have any idea what I could do to win her back please do tell me!! I don´t want her as just a friend anymore and I think she knows that I want her to be my girlfriend.
any thoughts and comments are appreciated
If she is that ashamed/upset/completely bitchy about sleeping with you, forget her - move on to the next one. I doubt (no offense) she is a movie star, so there is always improvements - and honestly, probably more in her shitty personality.
So, if she wants to be like that fine, freeze her out - she'll text u eventually when you are out of her life and she "misses" the sex / thing you guys had.
CHAT