Hey y'all. I'll start by saying I'm 18 years old, out of high school and never hooked up or had sex with a female.

Anyways, I saw this girl i met through my friend a couple of days ago. When I first met her, I kind of ignored her, but we talked a bit as the night went on- we had similar taste in music. When I saw here the other day, i was sitting in my car at a gas station just thinking about things and she pulled up once, left, pulled up again and started cleaning her car (at this point I didn't know it was her). When I looked over i saw that i had met her before, i rolled down the window and said 'what's up?' we started talking, she kept talking about 'my ex-boyfriend blah blah,' and sounded depressed/almost started crying it looked like. I could relate, and i said to just chill out,stop worrying and enjoy each day for what it's worth. We talked about the community college we both had been going to (i dropped out). So then I said we should chill, ans she said yeah take my number, so i took it. I said I had to go, she said cool.

So I wait about a day and text her on Tuesday night

"I had a dream about you last night J. this is cj btw"

she sent me one back the next day at 12 noon saying

"Good dreams ???"

I waited until about 10 Pm that same night (last night) and said

"yo it was fly. I'll have to tell you about it when I see you next" (this is congruent to my personality. I say things like fly/word up all the time).

I haven't heard back form her yet, but I wanted to know if this is a decent approach. I thought that being ambiguous with my response would keep her intrigued and at the same time make her want to see me again to find out what happened in this dream I had.

If/when i see her again, should I say that the dream was sexual? (i think the word fly may have implied this) My intent is to hook up/bang this chick, but I also like her as a person...

Thanks

Well dude depending on how comfortable she is around you you might have creeped her out by telling her you have a dream about her. I mean if you got to a good comfort level I would say that wasn't a bad approach at all but maybe you were demonstrating a little to much interest too quickly. Demonstrating interest in her could be attractive or repulsive. Again it all depends on her comfort level with you and the value that you have displayed to her.

Here's some advice. Read The Game by Neil Strauss and The Mystery Method if you haven't already. The Game is very inspiring story on the science/art of pickup and The Mystery Method is more informational based. Read The Game first. It sounds to me that you have no problem putting yourself our there in the field but you might need some more gaming material.

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Seems like you scared her off a bit, fairly so as well. She will interpret the dream as x-rated probably or something silly as girls do, and the idea of you saying you'll say when you meet her sounds a bit like you're enticing her to meet you about a fabricated dream of yours. Hopefully you run into her again and can save yourself then, by bringing up the dream saying she did something awesome to help you or something.

Yep the dream text killed it for you. That sorta thing only works when you've already made out with a girl and her buying temperature is high. Your text should've been a casual, "hey lets hang out" kinda thing.