Three nights ago I met some male friends of mine in a club by luck. They're was a cute girl with them that I had never seen before. So I ask one of the guys, who is that? You never know that she's the gf of one of the guys, don't want to mess up a friendship. It was the sister of the guy I just asked. He introduced me to her and we talked a while. I was pretty sure she was into me as well, she was giving me plenty IOI's: smiling all the time, touching me etc so I started dancing with her, closer and closer. Finally we danced with my leg in between her legs, hers in between mine and me holding her ass.

So far so good. But then, when she has to leave, (I don't remember how) she finds out that I had forgotten her name and reacts badly to it. She said something like: you talked and danced with me all night and you don't even remember my name? Then I asked her brother who was standing next to me (should've asked her instead probably) what her name was again. He told me and then she said he lied, that that wasn't her name. Then I said bye and left.

I added her on facebook the next day around 1 pm, didn't have her number, and saw that the name the brother said, was right (of course). So I guess she said it was wrong because she was a bit offended. She accepted my request around 5 pm. Now I don't really know what to send her. I know that a number or kiss would've been a lot better, but after forgetting her name (stupid brain ) it wasn't really possible anymore.

I could say: 'Hey, so it is *** after all? Sorry for my bad memory, don't take it personally.'

But by saying that I have the impression that I'll come off needy and also make her remember the bad part of the evening while there was plenty of fun before that. Any tips or ideas?

A bit of background info: I've gotten into pickup about 6 months ago. I have had some successes, various number and kiss closes, no f** closes yet.

Don't waste any more time. You've fucked it up so bad that you are better off getting new girls lol start making a journal for yourself and writing all the stuff that you do/don't do down. It will help you remember not to do it next time. Use the interaction to improve... not to try and get laid. You don't need to fuck every girl that you talk to.