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Met a girl, talked to her,got her number, bumped into her a few days later, she turns around and starts talking to me. We text a little bit after,back and forth. Tell's me she's busy Friday afternoon (one of the days she said she had off), Told her I'd hit her up later. I called her today, no answer, texted her asking if she'd like to get together tomorrow, and...no response.
Recently I was watching a video by Mystery, where he stressed the importance of time bridging, and setting the time to meet then and there. Essentially saying, numbers are useless. Guess this one, fairly hot girl, is getting dropped. Need to sharped my initial attraction/rapport and planning. Unless you guys have any suggestions. Cuz I sure as fk aren't going to keep calling her, and don't like the fact I got no response. Couldn't care less if she was Britney Spears!.
Be patient, texting a girl is like flyfishing, you have to tease and challenge, softly at first then more daring as she starts responding. DO NOT CALL HER until you have good texting response.
Wait a day or two, then send her a text that says "You're cute when you don't text me back... if means you've been thinking nice things about me!" When she texts you back, which she's likely to do, respond "You like me too much, I'm going to have to put you on my black list". After another text or two, write "So when are you buying me that beer? Hurry up because there's a girl who's almost as cool as you who wants to steal me away".
See the pattern? Tease, challenge. Repeat as needed.
HTH, 50