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A couple months ago on fb I ran into this HB that worked at a hangout of mine and sat night I finally ran into her again. So as the night goes.... I saw her outside saying hello to everyone and I called her name out, she turns around and runs to me hugs me, kisses my cheeks, and when I go to let go she hugs me tighter! I tell her how good it is to finally see her again and not just on fb, and joke for a few minutes. After a couple of miniutes I tell her I gotta grab a beer and get back to my friends. A couple hours later I went to an after party where within 10min of being there she shows up and is dancing with me grinding and letting my hands go wherever they want, she turns around, bends overand I smacked her ass a few times and as she was coming back up I ran my fingers thru her hair and pulled her hair as I slowly brought her back up to me. She turned around and asked me to to go get water with her, I said sure and offered her some back at my place, she said let's go, but before we stumbled off one of her friends grabbed her aside and told her she was crossing some boundary? She said she wasn't and shrugged her off. We got back to my place and I gave her the water, she set it down, unbuttoned her pants and grabbed my hand. She pulled me to my bed, put my hand down her pants and between her legs. As I wispered some stuff to her I asked if she was enjoying it and she smiled and said yes and started to pull her pants down, I got up to to undress real quick and when I turned back around she was out like a light. I got dressed, pulled her pants back up covered her up and went back to chill with some friends for a bit. Came back and fell asleep next to her.
When she woke up we talked a bit and then she asked if we hooked up, I said not exactly and she said ok and we had some coffee and talked for another hour or so, gave me a hug and a kiss on the cheek left. She asked me if I was going to be around later and I told her no because I had to go to work and she said we would stay in contact on fb.
Just looking for some feedback on things I did right or wrong and maybe what's nextove is with keeping contact.
Totally in agreement with Heywood Jablowme!
You now have a great opportunity to create a fun connection... tease her a little about her falling asleep on your bed... tell her you didn't think you were such a bad lover, but having a girl fall asleep on you has really ruined your self-esteem (said with confidence this will make her crack up). Or you can tell her that you want to find out if she is really such a terrible kisser or if she does better when she's sober.
Be sure to keep up the texting banter over the week... this should heat her up... then towards Wednesday tell her it's her last chance to set up a date with you, because you have a chance with a girl who's an insomniac. Then say "so where are you taking me for our dinner date? I'm looking forward to being wined and dined, I'm not a cheap lay!"
Or something like this, you get the picture... it's clear she's already into you, so she shouldn't give you too much of a hard time for the date. Just don't make her feel bad for wanting to get together while drunk (but you knew that).
Cheers,
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