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PostPosted: Thu Apr 11, 2013 11:43 pm 
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So, I'm really tight with this HB 8-9. We've been friends for the last seven years. I tried to make a go for her a couple years back, but was hit with the LJBF. Recently however, I've been getting into the game, and Pick-Up Artistry. It's really been given a boost to myself confidence and I feel like a better man.
Anyways, so the other day I'm out with her, and I just start running routines on her for fun/practice, and to my complete disbelief, she is going for it 100%. Every neg, every last bit of Kino, every little last word is working on this girl, who I have wanted forever!
I'm watching her get the "Doggy Dinner Bowl" as I take her though the cube, so then I say 'fuck it' I realized that I already have enough IOIs to go for the kiss close, so as we're leaving I throw her up against a wall and start making out with her, She DUG it! The rest of the night was great, but nothing else happened. (Completely my fault)

So I'm seeing her tomorrow, and the problem is I'm out of routines! I feel like I should probably just have the inner game to not need them, especially given how close we are already, I just don't want to get too comfortable, and fall back into the same AFC she knows, and have that be just a one night thing.

Any ideas on what I should do? Or if this is even ethical?


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PostPosted: Fri Apr 12, 2013 3:39 am 
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This is the problem with routines, they are dangerous in the wrong hands. You can't make a relationship out of routines, because what she actually wants is that interesting guy that knows stuff like 'the cube' and all of this other cool stuff that you actually don't know anything about. Unless you can actually be as interesting as the routines made you SEEM, you're fucked.

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PostPosted: Sun Apr 14, 2013 9:20 pm 
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Firstly, props for making out with that girl - I'm sure everyone on here has that one girl who 'friendzoned' them and you might be just about to break out of it!

The thing to remember with routines is that they are just ideas that have come from basic principles.

Work out what these basic rules are, and what suits your personality - and thats how you get natural.

For me, I made a couple simple changes - I'm a bit of a funny guy and one thing I stopped doing was making fun of myself, and infact, flipped it. Better to joke about how amazing you are, than how shit you are (following from this comes natural negging-back and forth). I also manned-up and brought more kino into my game and that made a massive difference.

I also stopped being such a cynical miserable bastard and started viewing everything in a more positive light - which made me a more positive person to be around (if you've read the game, the bit that sticks in my mind most is the bit with Tom Cruise and how positive he is).

So yeah, rather than following a script - word for word, set yourself rules 'Never: self-deprecate, Always: Make a joke at her expense' for example - whichever ones suit you and your personality. And when you do something wrong, think about it, and see if there is a universal rule you need to follow.

In particular with this girl - to not be AFC, just play it cool - don't 'can we talk about what happened the other night' or anything like that, just make out like its no big deal and carry on gaming her - you're probably gonna come across new sticking points at every stage with this one ;) but its all learning! we all have sticking points


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