there is this girl which i met at my friend's party. We had a great conversation and i did like her. afterwards, i added her on fb and telling her that she's cute and she seems to be pretty cool. I asked to hang out with her, however due to multiple factors we delayed it for almost three months. During this period i message her irregularly, cause i dont wanna show my availability.

Laters, she gave me her number and I started to text her. A month ago, i invited her to my bday party, but i didnt spent much time with her cause i dont wanna be clinging. last week, she asked me if she is still interested in hang over, THIS IS AN IOI!WHICH I BELIEVE. so i took her to a free salsa dancing class. She dig it and she loved the idea.
BTW, i think i was being a douche when i went out with her.

So that was last week, since then i havent text her or anything. what should i do?

Just send: what are you up to at (insert day). Then say you got something planned to do, and that she should join.

Wallie

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You know Nimesis, there is such thing as playing it too cool.

You don't want her to feel you are present, but at the same time you don't want her to forget you. Girls give clues for what is too often and what is not often enough. Try and read those.

You should stop 2nd guessing yourself, because she's into you. Ask her out and bang her

Yeah, you guys got the point. I was afraid that if show too much interest I would lost her immediately. But I shouldn't be too cool.

Also, I'm kinda stuck in a moral dilemma, I don't really like her that much. I mean she cute and nice, but I don't think she is good enough for me. I feel like if I just use her as crash test dummy, bang her and dump her. It makes me feel bad, cause she is a nice girl. What should I do?

Give her a chance if she shows interest. If it doesn't work out, just use the line girls use most: Lets'just be friends. Works for me at least.

Wallie

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