| Background:
Met this girl on Friday the 22nd. Totally my type, rarely meet girls like that. Immediately into me, instant attraction. Some guy talks to her friend , friend pulls her. Meet her later get her number. Run into her at another bar, joke about it. She texts me asking where I am, but I was home by then. Don't know if she got mad, she was obv down. She texts me next morning saying my number is saved. I just say have a great day and leave it at that. Re-initiate next day, a couple of exchanges and conversation slows/halts. Wait a day, ask her out she says she's out of town this week. Send some chode text then say no worries catch up later. Re-initate in few days, good banter. Ask her if shes out on fri night, she says yes but not back in town. Ask her when is she back (sent on sat morning). Replies i'm back (on Sat evening). Wasn't sure if this was an invitation to hang out. So told her i was having dinner and asked her what was she up to, she said staying in. I said me too. At this point, I thought she seems interested since she's been responding. So I straight up ask for Day 2 on Sunday evening for Wed (including a funny message an hour later after initial text) saying if she doesnt have ches.s cl.ub on Wed evening that is). Haven't heard since.
Looking at a few options now:
1. Call her from diff number and if she picks up, I can talk my way through, remind her of that night etc. Might be too try hard. Doing this because she is likely to ignore actual call.
2. Try re-initating with playful banter in a couple of days
3. Straight up text Fri night asking to meet up then
4. Do a combination of 2 and 3, but would probably only work well if 2 leads to compliance.
I think she might be mad that I didn't come out that night and might just be "getting even" to validate her ego. Its close to 2 weeks from the initial interaction now.
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