So I met this chick online. We hung out last week. Got some drinks, ate some food and chilled for about 3 hours. Weve been texting every day for a week. Usually just little crap, nothing big. Saturday we exchange have a good night texts earlier in the day. Sunday I was planning to call her to set up a day 2. But before I had the chance she actually texted me first for the first time.

HB9 "Hope your night was good last night!"

Since I was planning to call her to set up a day 2 I returned the text with a phone call. She was with friends but answered anyways. I set up a date during an evening night to go to the museum to check out a popular exhibit in town. After the conversation she randomly texts me a picture of herself. IOI? Im thinking the museum will be entertaining, and allow for some physical escalation seeing as were not sitting across from eachother at a table this time. So Im planning to step it up in the physical escalation for this day 2 and hopefully create some solid attraction. This is a very down to earth and nice girl, who by every piece of evidence I gather is looking for a genuine nice guy and a relationship with him. So Ive put the games to the side and have been being myself.

Im curious about what you guys opinion is on some escalations I can make to create a good amount of attraction? Im thinking of pulling out the cube routine to build some emotional tension? Thoughts are appreciated! This chick is a potential relationship interest, not just looking to close her.

Thanks guys!

If you want to escalate physically and keep her as a girlfriend pull away in the heat of the moment. Make-out and fondle her, etc. and then, say that you like her, and do not want to take things to fast. Freeze her out for a while. As she begins to make her exit, escalate physically again. The strategy is to convey you really like her for both her personality and body, so much so that you cannot control yourself. This makes follow up attempts to escalate physically much easier.

I was thinking of physically escalating but keeping it relatively light. Just trying to set up some physical tension and flirtation. Im thinking I need to build up to k-close her this week when we hang out. But not really intending on the fondling, or the not being able to control myself scenario. Im thinking of leaning more towards an emotional connection with physical flirting shy of any fondling for our second time hanging out. Not anticipating a make-out session. I think building up physical tension, simple k-close will be enough to get her hooked when put together with some emotional connection for a second date. Or maybe Im wrong.

And just to be clear. If this was some chick I was gaming at the bar, I would be working on fclosing that shit by now. But impression of this chick is she has more potential than practice

You know the girl better than I. Go with your gut, you know what you are doing. Feel free to play the weak man, "cant-control-myself" victim, once the sexual tension goes up. Good luck.

I like that idea once the tension goes up. That's what I usually do. But for a second date I'm just looking to create attraction and get her hooked on thinking about me and wanting to see more of me.