There's this girl who I've known for some time now and just can't seem to get alone with. We text one another every blue moon and catch up but rarely see Each other anymore. When we are together there's a great flirty push/pull chemistry between us. One day she text me and talks about how she hasn't seen me in forever and I suggest that we get together soon and she agrees. A few days later I text her saying when are you taking me out on that date and tell her that I was fond of Jamba Juice. She text back and tells me Saturday would be good and I confirm. Saturday comes we scheduled for 430 before she had to go to work but she stays at a pool party too long and text and tells me sorry she couldn't make it. I work at the pool party she went to and knew it'd be a possibility of running into her.

I text her back saying it was cool and that I just met her twin. She begins questioning, where, what was her name etc. I tell her that they must be fraternal because her twin was a hottie! She laughs it off and literally 3 mins later she walks out of the pool club with her actual sister. I freeze her out for a bit and give all the attention to her Little Sister and she kinda just sits back and watches silently... Then she gives me a big hug and tells me how much she missed me and blah blah blah, I brush it off and say I've missed you too Miss Flaky flake. (Don't know if that was AFC or not, used it more as a neg) She replies "I'm not a flake". I freeze her out again and begin back talking to the sister and ignore everything she was saying. The little sister says they were going to eat and she yells out "You should totally come". I deny, we chat a bit more.

As we're talking a girl I know which happened to be my friends EX begins pointing and waving at me from a far, and the girl starts questioning me in a defensive tone like "Who is that!?" I nonchalantly tell her its a friend and she gives me this look of death... They take off because she had to go to work.

I'm confused on what action to take.

I thought this was going to be a disaster story after reading "when are you taking me out on that date?" Because it's the man that is suppose to take initiative in setting up the date.

But you dealed with everything else pretty well. The negging and ignoring her was good. "I missed you too Miss Flakey Flake" wasn't AFC in my opinion. Especially since she denied it and you then proceeded to ignore her.

So in my opinion, you can recontact her to try to set up another date. Be clear you won't accept another flake.

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Yes she definately seems into you, the flaky flake comment was definately not the the best thing to say because it sets up a frame as if you're a guy she's rejecting but you definately made up for it by befriending her sister and dhv from your friend waving at you, maybe something you should consider is instead of texting her call her, texting feels like theres very little invested, especially if it's something planned ahead.

Maybe call and then tell her to come to something the day that you call, girls over think plans a lot and the stress of it can make them just decide it would be better to just not go or answer. Your in a good position to call and tell her to meet you some where at sometime you think would be convient for her, so that theres less chance to be put down.

Yea calling her would be a good idea only except that she's always busy working between jobs and I'm not to sure of her schedule... Think there is an indirect way to find out? Would it be a smart idea to tell the little sister that I'm into her sister?

Well you could ask her directly about her schedules sayif you guys are talking on the phone or small talking, as long as you make it seem relativant, then just take notes about it cause she probably will forget she told you anyway, if you ask over text shes more likely to remember though.

As much as telling her sister, im not sure that would necesscarily help you too much cause then you become an option of hers, but if you get her little sister to admire you then its a huge help because you will seem more invovled in her life and her sister seems like she'll probably ask you to hangout with them so you can get more contact with her.

When girls friends or family talks positive about you it highly increases your value to them