Alright so I met this chick online. We've hung out once and have talked on the phone a couple times and teted here and there. She's gorgeous and a model. She is 22. So we met up last week and had a drink and some Unique food at a local eatery. Convo was good I made her laugh a ton. But my pua techniques fell by the wayside quickly as she turned out to be a very nice, very laid back girl who is looking for someone because her " faith" told her too. Now without getting into a religion discussion, this point she told me completely disarmed my game. It's as if she is looking for a nice guy and is over the game. Like she could see through the bullshit pua stuff, and it was like it had zero effect on her. She gave small iois throughout the 3 hours we hung out, but nothing solid. I went total nice guy on her after I heard her story. She just didn't seem like a girl I wanted to play with but one I want to be the real nice guy I am around. Now Upon leaving this date we had we hugged and she said going out again sounded good. We've texted a few times a day since, always initiated by me. And that is because I told her to get ahold if me after we said goodbye on our date, and she quickly pointed out that a gentleman would contact the lady. Which I can't argue with because he would. And this seems like the kind of girl looking for that kinda guy. So I was planning to call her today or something to invite her to a big museum event this week. It's a thing on the titanic, and has been selling out. Very only in the city wants to see this deal. Anyways any insight would be great!

Drop the PUA shite and relate to her as a human being.

Then you'll stand a much better chance.

Don't be in too much of a rush to "close" her in order to gain bragging rights on here or in real life : no one wants to be treated like a piece of meat.

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Thanks Bro. Ya I use some PUA stuff at the bars to get numbers and get conversations rolling. But Im finding that just being myself after things are set in motion is working alot better. And for this particular girl I think its the way to go. Im in no hurry to close such a gorgeous girl who seems to want a genuine relationship with a good guy. If it was just some chick from the bar looking for a good time Id be playing all kinds of games. But in this case Im feeling like its an exception, and I should just be me.

That being said, being ME is hard in this case. Because this chick seems cool, and Im excited to see her and spend time with her. However, Im trying to be reserved and not come on to strong. I cant wait to know more about her, which is making me want to contact her. But I dont want to come off as needy and shit by always wanting to talk to her and wanting to know more about her.

She hasnt initiated a conversation with me thus far. Id really like her to, so I can have some sort of indication that shes interested. I suppose if she wants to hang out again that will be an indication though. But from how we left on our date, she indicated that she feels its the guy who should be making the contact. Which is fine, I get that.

I guess Im just writing my thoughts out here and trying to rationalize what to do next. But Im thinking that the museum deal is a good idea because it will give the opportunity for some physical contact. That way I can avoid the friend zone. I want to be a nice guy, but dont want to end up in the friend zone so I do plan to step it up, but again not in an effort to close immediately, just in an effort to get this chick to like me and think about me.