So I K-Closed and #-Closed with this girl last night. I'm fairly new to the game and I need some pointers.
I honestly messed up b/c I'm pretty sure I could've F-Closed that night if I had some balls. I'm going to learn from the mistake by having a better understanding of logistics.

So 10 mins after k-closing(we both called it a night), she texts me how she had a great time and what not. I basically have fun with the texting by teasing her, which was congruent to the way our interactions were going during that night. She enjoyed it...



Anyways, I would like to meet up with her again, but I don't want anything serious. How do I go about relaying that message without sounding like an asshole? She texted me this morning(she was responding to one of my texts from last night), but I was sleeping/hungover so I didn't get a chance to respond. So now what? I can text her back, but is it too early? I found her on FB...what's rule of friending a girl you just met on FB. Is it a bad idea to wait a few days to text her back?

Also, I don't drive(I'm 25), but that's something that's out of my control right now. Though, I will be driving within a few months, so it's not going to be an issue in the future. So no driving AND my parents live with me. Ultimately, it's these 2 issues that are messing up my inner game when it comes to F-Closing and dating. Any help on this would also be great. Thanks!

Well, I think you answered one question on your own.... Work on yourself first. Becoming a successful PUA is all about growing as a person. You will notice, through your desire to meet better quality women as you go, that you force yourself to become a better quality man. Continue working on your "Game" but understand that women can see right through the bullshit. If you are going to tell a 10 that you are some big super star whatever.... It doesn't necessarily mean that it is what you are right now. But you damn well better be doing everything to become that superstar that you told her you were... Otherwise it will catch up to you after a while. Don't promise on something that you can't deliver.

And as far as your parents go... If they give you any push back to having girls over... Ask them if they want grand children eventually? They will more than likely say yes. And in order for that to happen, their son is going to have to plant his seed inside of someone. If they can't realize that, then that should be motivation for you to get out of your house even that much faster.

The girl you are talking about clearly likes you. You didn't necessarily screw up by not having sex with her.... Just make sure you make it happen next time. Women will only go as far as the man will take her. She won't rip your clothes off you the first time you have sex. You have to lead her through it. It is good that you kissed her however. That may be why she keeps texting you. Find something to do around your area that you could have her tag along with and bring her back to your house. Make sure you keep escalating kino and don't let things feel "weird" for her.... And you will find yourself in bed with her. If and when you screw up, see it as simply a learning experience. There are plenty more girls out there...

Thank you for the thoughtful response Majika. How do I go about not having a car at the moment? When I was in college, not having a car for dates wasn't really an issue b/c it's common for students not to have cars. Now I'm no longer in school, so I really can't fall back on that excuse. Like I said in the OP, my reason for not being able to drive is somewhat complicated and it's not something that I feel like explaining to her.

Also, is it bad to wait a couple of days to reignite the text conversation?

Honestly... You're going to have to get girls that are okay with you not having a car. AS LONG AS you have ways of getting around (good friends to drive you around, rental, limo... Pick your poison) I wouldn't see it as being a big deal. We all go through shit where things happen... I am 25 as well. When I still lived with my parents, I had a nice car... But my mom would FLIP the fuck out. Some girls didn't want to hook up in a car (it was a BMW so why they wouldn't want to boggles my mind.... Heated German leather? C'mon lol) and I knew I couldn't bring them back to my parents house... so I would either A. Take her to a hotel or B. Not make a big deal about it. But she would never see me again.

Whats important to me in a relationship is someone who's going to be understanding and supportive of whatever my current situation is... No matter how good or how shitty. As long as you take care of yourself, if she questions you on the living situation or the car, don't elaborate and make her feel sorry for you. Just have a solution as to what you can do instead... Being a high value man shows that you are doing everything to BECOME the best possible man that you told her you are and if she is a girl that's right for you, she should want to be by your side getting there... Not just when you get to the top.

Don't chase em, Just replace em.

^Thank you for this. Much needed info.

Just don't say anything about "relationship". Assert the frame of "We're going to fuck 1-2 times per week."
Depends on what she texted you. If it was boring, just start a new thread. If it was good banter, start going on tangents.
Avoid adding girls that you meet in person. (Let them add you, if anything.) First, NOT adding them, allows them to be more discrete. Adding them may come across as a little needy. Also, some ppl may correlate Facebook friend as "let's just be friends".

Thank you for answering those questions.

So I texted her and got decent banter for 15-20 mins or so. Her final text made it seem like that she was interested in this situation continuing. Should I wait now? My end goal is to set up a day 2, but I'm going to be extremely busy this weekend. What to do?