Good morning PUA forum, this is my first post, let me start by saying this forum has been priceless to me it has helped me attract whatever women I desire(the 5 lies game has proved itself priceless) and I have finally found one that I desire more than any other woman that I why I post this in the girlfriend section.

Backstory: Friday night my sister and myself went to one of her friends birthday(Jenny), now her friend has a sister(Wendy) who I have never met but I am really attracted too(Saw pics on FB). My sister and Jenny put in a good word about me to Wendy and Wendy is exited to meet me.

I get to the party and meet Wendy, we start talking and have a great vibe, we then go upstairs and proceed to do some molly after a little bit of dancing both of us go outside(We are starting to peak) we go outside and smoke a cigarette, then at this moment I experienced something I never have before, I felt so uncontrollably attracted to her and her to me, we both proceeded to start glaring into each others eyes(she has amazing green eyes) I say that we should do nothing for the next 2 minutes but look at each other with constant eye contact. About one minute into this she says that she is getting chills... so am I, It was like in that Eminem song when he talks about getting chills just by being with someone. We just spent the next several minutes just staring at each other in complete bliss, I had never felt this before in my life... she then told me she never felt so comfortable with anyone in her whole life, I felt the same way.

We then proceeded to dance for several hours and then we have some amazing sex, I woke up the next morning right next to her and we looked at eachother and smiled then kissed, and despite feeling bad from the after effects from molly I couldn't help but think this is the woman I want to wake up to every morning I can.

Then.... I number closed! Woot! This night didnt happen in the usual order.

Now if you have read this far thank you! Now onto my question...

I texted her the next day to confirm for our hangout next weekend, she agrees... But I literally cannot stop thinking about her, and she told me she cannot stop thinking about me. Now I normally avoid contact during the week unless I am scheduling a meetup, but I reallllly want to call her and talk to her. I just want to hear her voice and carry on our amazing vibes we have, will this seem too needy? I was just wondering if any of you guys have had an experience like this? How did it turn out? Did you talk all of the time after a night like this? Most of all can I call her today(Monday)(Friday I met her)? I really do not want to mess this one up and any help will be appreciated thank you!

You had a wonderful evening, good job there. And here's where the shitty part comes, you ready? You may have a certain form of one-itis. The first girl you're able to connect with through the routines and methods can be addictive (trust me) but she may not be the one for you. It seems ike you've got a good thing going, which is great (by all means, she sounds wonderful), but don't start getting overly clingy now. Give it time, wait until the weekend, that's what you both agreed to right? If she's going to be your next amazing, wonderful gf, why not let the tension build a little? By the weekend she'll want to see you so badly she'd probably do you right there and then.

If she turns out to be just a pickup after the weekend, you did a good job by waiting. If she's the next Ms. Gianfan92, you still won't have done anything wrong. Let the tension build my man

I couldn't agree more. However I'll add this

If you really wanna chat with her. Go ahead an have some playful texts maybe in the middle of the week somewhere. Just to build on your connection. Maybe not too much. But enough to have some fun and be able to chat with her a bit. But cut if off before it gets to be needy and stuff. Just be yourself and use your guy judgement

Hey guys thanks for the reply, sorry about the delayed response! She ended up texting me literally as I posted this and we have been hitting it off ever since. Oh and FYI this wasn't my first time with the 5 lies game! My "Record" is around 40 "Wins" 1 "Loss" and the one time I lost my part of the bet was doing a kegstand.

Good job m8

Whoever says that this is one-itis is wrong. One-itis is one sided. She clearly feels the same way. Just a tip for anything like this in the future dealing with her, although you clearly like each other a lot especially with someone you feel such an emotional connection with, its important to use your logical brain when you make decisions revolving around this girl, not your emotional brain. Thats how you lose control. If you are using your logical brain, you can get the same results you want, but with control of the situation.

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I agree with the above: This is not at all one-itis if she likes you back.
Now, if she really felt this connection like you did, please do not wait over a weekend to call her.
If a girl has sex with you out of a connection (so not a one-night-stand out of lust, fool's mate if you wish), she is very vulnerable afterwards. She will feel very bad if she does not hear from you the day after and she will connect this bad feeling to you as well.

My advise would be to text her the day after, right away. Text a short joke like "Hey I think I'm wearing one of your socks" (you can probably come up with something funnier and more appropriate).
Since it is short and funny, she can react whatever, and from the style and length of her reaction you can take it further..

One-itis has nothing to do with whether a girl likes you back or not. One-itis is when you think this is the one. Like the name says. The idea is that there isn't a "one" just another one.

Listen, this is not that. This is something extraordinary. I have been with plenty of women (about 50) and I can tell you that you will connect with each girl on a different levels. Some connections will be physical, some mental, some emotional, some sexual, and some a combination. The more of these levels you connect with a girl, the stronger your feelings towards her will be.

You seem to connect with this girl physically, emotionally, and sexually, maybe even mentally. Out of the 50 girls I've been with, I can say that the connection with 2 of them was then the others. Interestingly, neither were the cutest I've been with, but probably the most okay with themselves. I've had the feeling you describe with about 5 girls, where I could have married them. Of everyone, there is 1 girl that I connected with so deeply that it's hard to describe. It's a connection that is like a drug. Even a year after being with her it's just as potent. It's the strangest and most amazing experience I've ever had.

So, now the challenge. This kind of girl will test your game more than any other. If it is sparks and fireworks then go with it. Get into it. Fall head over heels. However, you can't give her your power. You have to lead this interaction. You MUST make the decisions about the pacing. You decide on the direction. You decide on how fast you want things to go. If you are sure, make sure you are, then act on your decision.

Even if this girl is everything you have ever wanted and more, don't drop your life for her. Keep seeing your friends. Keep flirting with other girls. Keep having an interesting life. When you decide you want her as your girlfriend and you want to be exclusive, then you ask her. Then stick to your decision.

It's a great thing you've found and I advise not to let it go. Go for it, but don't give her control over you. You have to be willing to walk, no matter what.