Hey peeps.

Speaking as a relatively senior (still learning all the time however) PUA who has slept with a decent enough amount of women and also been in a few long relationships, I think I'm well versed in letting you know the following:

CLOTHES SHOPPING DATES ARE THE SHIT!!!

Seriously, whether you're after your oneitis, on a first date or even looking to game someone new, 'clothes shopping dates' are a superb way to spend time with that person. I'll list a few reasons why but for me, the main thing....

* They are non threatening! Girls love shopping anyway, so saying that you're looking for a few bits for yourself and that she should come along to look with you is something that they actually won't mind doing and actually they'll be more relaxed doing. Asking a girl to meet you at that secluded bar now.......
* Most (not all granted) are much better at dressing guys then we are! It certainly won't hurt to have a girl pick a few things out for you!
* Girls will pick clothes that they like will in turn make you more attractive to more girls, it's a win win.
* You can actually make a day of it and more often than not, you will spend more time with your girl on a shopping trip than in a bar having drinks so more rapport / comfort building happens on dates like these
* You can show Alpha qualities and gauge how well your date is going. If you go into a clothes shop and you do your own thing and walk away from her to look at clothes you want to look at (alpha), does she come to you and find you after a few minutes? (Tip: the longer the delay, the more work you might have to do).

These are a just a few things and to be honest, I'm tired and can't be asked to write any more but seriously, clothes shopping dates are VERY effective. Unfortunately, I don't know how you'll act on your date, that's on you but you will have more time to make a positive impression. Next time you're stuck with what to do....say you're looking for a few new bits and she should come along and help you..you may be pleasantly surprised.

My two cents. Game on.

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Wow...finally 1 other guy that thinks clothes shopping is good...

I take ppl clothes shopping all the time...They choose a shirt for me...we go to the dressing room, I leave the door open, they see me undress and dress...Im a playful guy ...she finds me nice pants...I leave the dress room door open, I change, they blush and look, and turn around like "OMG" and so on...if they're laughing and having fun, you're all good.

Last went shopping with a girl, week aftr valentines day, walked into Guess...saw pants to wear, and shirts...IT IS TIME for guys to b more dam confident in how they look...

Took my shirt off...walked around the store without a shirt on, while wearing pants that I was jus trying on...changing room...walk outside of it without a shirt on, and look into the mirror point to ur dick as to how the pants are too tight for you, because other girls can see your penis..."oh this is why you like these kinda pants"...neg um and so on...

Take um shopping...they'll give you clothing advice and maybe you can get them to buy you something...Walk by victorias secret?...Ask for her size, talk about what she wears...get sexual, get kino, you'll buy her that bra, but you have to see if it fits well..you know what? THIS SHIT WORKS...she lets u in the changing room to check...get kino...

Make out in the changing room....have her try on lingerie that you buy her...myb u wont see it in the store...but she'll show it in the bedroom (if she allows you to buy her lingerie while out with her...its almost always...a "OKAY ILL LET YOU SEE ME LATR kinda thing)...

Shopping is fun...I like buying things for myself and ...i love the attention I get too.

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Any guy that says shopping dates are bad ...is shopping incorrectly...you suck at shopping if you're not doing what Iv mentioned above.

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I've actually asked her to go shopping with me last saturday. Some bird I picked up that night before and we got along very well. She was into it but she had to stay at her mom's till 4:30 PM while shops were closing at 5, we did have a date that evening at 1AM though when I came by her house so she was definitely not rejecting me.

I honestly have never had a shopping date with a girl I like before but I've never thought it's a bad idea. after all, girls indeed like shopping, you're certain they will find you something THEY like, so generally most girls will, it's a great way to have fun, do some kino and you can be very playful. Some great advice here, gonna ask her to come clothes shopping with me later this week again, sure it'll turn out great!