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 Post subject: Standing her Up?
PostPosted: Sun Feb 17, 2013 2:07 am 
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I got a question that I've been wondering for a while. If a girl stands you up, is it ok to do the same to her?
I know that she likes me because she told me that already twice but then she did stand me up twice and when I give her space (don't text her) she doesn't text me either. Last time it has been about a week before I decided to text her. I was actually contemplating should I text her or should I just move on and then I decided to text her. We hung out twice after that, we kissed which she initiated. That was on Monday. We texted afterwards though.

On Wed we texted and I asked if she were busy since her texts were a bit short. The reason for that was that I don't like being annoying. She said yes she was out with her friends so I said ok have fun and text or call me later if you want and that was it. Maybe I've should have rephrased that last text? Anyways, I've realized that I've been messaging her a bit too much so I wanted to cut that and decided not to text her for a while and wait on her to text me. She didn't text me since. Should I try to text her again? If so, in how long? I feel like she isn't trying that much and I don't want to chase. Thanks so much.


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 Post subject: Re: Standing her Up?
PostPosted: Sun Feb 17, 2013 5:49 am 
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You said that you feel "she isn't trying, and [you] don't want to chase." By what you are saying, you seem correct in your observations.
You are not giving her an opportunity to work for you because you are making everything easy for her, texting her all the time, and making plans with her--even though she stood you up.

Two recommendations: Judge a person on their actions, not by their words. Secondly, back off this girl for a few days, and meet some others girls/or practice your hobbies.

The space away will you give you clarity on what you really want, and you might be surprised that it might not be her.

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 Post subject: Re: Standing her Up?
PostPosted: Sun Feb 17, 2013 12:58 pm 
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Thanks.


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