I want to keep this question short, but I have to preface it with a story.

Friday afternoon I was at the bookstore and saw "The Game" and I bought it. I didn't read any of it until Sat. but I've been very interested and now I am posting my first post on any web site.

So that same Friday, I went to a strip club alone (something I never do). It was casual and I had a really good time talking with the strippers and such. At the end of the night, one of the girls insisted on giving me a lap dance for free, she led me by the hand to a lounge chair and got through half a dance before the lights came on. She told me her real name, and wanted to give me her number. I was a little confused because this doesn't usualy happen to me, while I hesitated she reached into my pocket, I say "no, it's in the other one." She puts her name and number in my phone but she also says "You won't call me anyway." ...she said that more than once.

I called her about 20 min later that night, but I didn't have anything to say and I felt pretty lame on the phone. So now it is Tuesday evening and I am anxious about calling agian. I have read half way through "The Game" and I was hoping some PUA out there might be able to give me some advice. It feels like there is a lot more pressure now.

Any advice would help, thanks.

When you call her back you need to have purpose for doing so, say inviting her out to do something. The key here is when you call her and ask her to do something you act as if you're already going to do it regardless of what she says. That way if she says, "No" you don't loose any value to her. For example, "Hey Stripper, I'm at the mall hanging with my friends, do you want to tag along?" Yes- "Cool, I'll meet you at xxxx." No- "No problem I'll have fun with my friends, later."

Keep this conversation very short. She gave you her number, obviously she likes you. So call her up and ask her to do something. Act like you're going do it anyways regardless of her decision. And keep the conversation very short, like under 5 minutes. Just Hello, the reason I'm calling...ask her out...get her answer...finalize details...get off the phone.

If she does say no, then just call her another time and we'll try again! GOOD LUCK!

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