Hey Guys,

New to the game, and to the forum as well.

Let me begin first by saying that I find gym game extremely difficult, escpecially with staff members with whom you have a very limited chat time. Another problem is the difficulty to spot IOI since most instructors there are bound to be friendly and chatty.

Anyways, I was at the gym and saw this HB(8 overall, 10 for ass..lol) who obviously was working as an instructor. While she was tidying up the weights, I approached her and teased her about how all the muscly guys always let the little girls do the hard work etc..She giggled and we did some small talk for another minute..she then had to get back to work.

I had decided to try and number-close next time I see her, even though is was rather early. I just dont have much time left as I m travelling soon...lol..So there I am again, I started chatting for a minute or two, broke a few jokes to which she was very responsive, but soon she had to be off again...exchanged a few looks and smiles from far but not much else. We ended up chatting about different training programs etc...etc.. and decided to meet again at the gym in a few days for personal training advice.

I never felt comfortable enough to ask for a future meeting or a number, I thought best to wait for one-two more casual gym chats like these to build some, if any, rapport? Do you guys think it's possible to be quicker, and jsut try the number close early?

I have been through that situation and let me tell you something.

DO NOT TRY TO GET THE PHONE.

Because she is a worker there and plus that she will feel that you are invading her intimate place.

My advice to you is continue what you are doing now and after a while you will have some common interest and do you know what will happen?

She will be craving you,and you will feel that.

When that time comes get her number just by asking to her and finish her ASAP

You know what I meant by FINISH